How to date 4 "girlfriends" in the next 90 days.
On a beautiful Saturday evening, two men are getting ready for their night.
They are remarkably similar, these 2 men. They’re around the same age, they have similar looks, and they’re great dudes.
And on this particular night, both have dating plans…but there is a massive difference in how their night will go.
The first man: He may stay home as usual, swiping through a digital sea of profiles (at times, he’s part of the 64% of men who feel a heavy sense of insecurity because their dating app shows them ONE screen only: “No Matches”)...
Deep down, he wishes he could go on more dates and connect with women in real life, but he’s worried that when the time actually comes… he may say or do something women will find unattractive, or even worse, “creepy.”
And when he FINALLY talks himself up and tries to meet real women in the real world? It’s almost as if he’s invisible…and on the rare occasion that he actually lands a first date (even a few first dates every month after much hard work)…
They almost never lead to a second date. He knows something is “off”... but he’s shooting in the dark and doesn’t know what to fix, or where to start.
The second man is playing an entire different game. He may swipe here and there, but he doesn’t rely on luck or an algorithm because…he’s comfortable approaching, talking to, and connecting with women on a deeper level (whether it’s women he meets organically or somebody he matches with on an app). On his dates, he moves with this calm, confident energy as if he knows exactly what to say and what to do at all times. And when he flirts? It doesn’t seem forced or rehearsed, and his dates often respond well by flirting back.
So what made the difference?
The ONLY difference between these 2 types of men (remember, they’re nearly identical in terms of age, looks, and background) is…
You see, if you’re not going on at least 3 dates PER WEEK, you’re likely not getting enough reps to develop the necessary skills leading up to, during, and following your interactions with women.
But going on more dates or dating for the sake of dating isn’t enough - you also need…
Real-time feedback from women who are ALSO consciously wanting to improve at dating. Only when you’re getting the right kind of feedback, you’ll know what you’re doing right, what you could improve at…and whether you’re making any progress (this is also how natural confidence starts to develop over time).
And if you’re not going on at least 3 dates per week, or you’re putting yourself out there consistently but aren’t getting any feedback, then this transformative program may be perfect for you:
What’s included in this program?
We’ll bring you a steady stream of women to practice with every week, you’ll be paired in up to 4 “practice” relationships ranging from 1-3 weeks, you’ll get feedback from both dedicated coaches and real women…
And most importantly, you’ll get SO many reps with dating that next time you meet a woman you like in person? You’ll have much better relationship skills, you’ll know what to do and what to say at various points during the interaction…and you’ll start noticing the *positive* snowballing effect of real practice and feedback in your dating life.
Still not convinced more practice is THE WAY to get better at dating? Let me tell you about what I like to call the…
Most men are stuck in a brutal trap:
To be good with women, you need confidence and various skills leading up to, during, and following your interactions with women. But to get that confidence and skills, you need successful, real-world experiences, lots of reps, and feedback (and women to practice with!).
And when you are not going on at least 3 dates per WEEK OR getting rapid feedback loops from women…
You’re not only likely stuck in this trap…but when you finally do get a chance with someone you like in real life?
…this lack of practice may show up as awkwardness and creepiness - and that’s assuming you actually approach them (after all, right this second, 75% of women are literally waiting for a man to approach them in person…but very few men actually do it).
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Guy Shahar is the Co-Founder and Lead Facilitator of The Tantra Institute, and the originator of Tantra Speed Date®. An Advanced Certified Tantra Educator, he has studied a broad range of modalities.
A writer, entrepreneur, former filmmaker, and musician, Guy is attuned not only to his personal journey in being a more interconnected lover, but about how to teach others to do the same.
Through his work with Tantra Speed Date®, he helps to heal the rift between the masculine and feminine, showing singles how to relate to each other in a new and loving way. Over 1,600 Tantra Speed Date® events have occurred in 60+ cities, including internationally in the UK, The Netherlands, Germany and Canada since 2017.
With numerous television appearances as well as features in Playboy, Cosmopolitan, Time Out New York, San Francisco Chronicle, The Sunday Times, and the New Yorker, The Tantra Institute has presented over 7,000 workshops led by 60+ facilitators, serving more than 138,000 students.
His decades of real-world experience, combined with inner work to move through personal trauma, has established him at the forefront of dating and intimacy.