BARE Connections | Naughty Resolutions | A Mens Only Spanking Party

The holidays are over, but discipline season’s just begun. Join us for an afternoon of connection, energy, and sting as men come together to play, spank, and start the year off right. Expect firm hands, sharp swats, and a space where mischief meets release. Come ready to laugh, connect, and keep those naughty resolutions in check.

18+ for all male identifying individuals. From beginners to the experienced. 18-21 are subject to ID verification.

Spanking isn’t just about impact—it’s about camaraderie, connection, and play. Whether you’re a seasoned spanko or simply curious, this party is designed to let you engage at your own pace—no pressure, no expectations.

What to Expect

Once upstairs you will enter the space where up to 11+ spanking zones are created for simultaneous spankings at any time.

We have Spanking furniture

Spanking benches, a St Andrews Cross, massage tables, Kneeling benches, and chairs for OTK

Please BYO:

1. Implements:belts, paddles, straps, canes, floggers, pervertables etc.
2. NO HOUSE IMPLEMENTS
3. Snacks to share for the communal snack table (optional)

We provide

1. Alcohol and paper towels for cleaning
2. Light refreshments

Rules

1. Consent first & for everything: yes means yes, no means no
2. Safewords: Yellow - checkin & Red - Stop
3. Respect scenes in progress: don't interrupt or join without permission
4. No Phones in play areas
5. Respect titles however role-play is not hierarchy, character over credentials.
6. No Kink Shaming
7. Clothing optional. Wear what’s comfortable.
8. Communicate and know your limits
9. Clean furniture before and after use
10. Clean implements after each use
11. Pace yourself to give/receive as much as you want.
12. **This is not the party for extreme play, broken and bleeding skin**

Schedule

Showing up early guarantees you to hear introductions to tops and bottoms and their intentions as well as the rule reading at 2PM

1:30 PM - Doors open, upon entry please take off your shoes and check in.

2 PM - Rules and introductions

2:30-6 PM - Open play

What You’ll Take Away

1. A supportive, male-only environment to explore spanking openly
2. The freedom to play, watch, or simply get a feel for what spanking parties are like
3. Opportunities to connect with like-minded men in a relaxed, low-pressure space
4. A felt experience of consent, negotiation, and community-centered kink

Facilitator

This container will be guided by Dan, a seasoned member of the Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection — reminding participants that this is as much about presence and community as it is about the intensity of the act itself. His facilitation ensures that whether you’re a newcomer or deeply experienced, you’ll feel held, supported, and free to explore at your own pace.

The meaning behind BARE Connections

BARE Connections is built to bring people together through fun, connection, and consent. We create inclusive spaces for consensual spanking—from men’s-only and role-play events to gender-led and mixed dynamics—welcoming all experience levels and all ages 18+ to explore in a safe, respectful, and trusting environment.

B - Bonds: earned trust and authentic connection

A - Attention: intentional focus, presence, and care

R - Rites: Knowledge, experience, skills, implements, and safety

E - Energy: The shared exchange and emotions that shape how your partner genuinely experiences the scene, rather than a disconnected act

Final Details

1. Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem, 113 E 125th St. 10035 - Unfortunately, The Sanctuary of East Harlem is not wheelchair accessible. Guests must be able to walk up a flight of stairs (20 steps).
2. When: Saturday, December 27th
3. Time: 1:30PM - 6:00PM
4. Tickets

30.00 Regular $20.00 Members

Same price at the door: Cash, Venmo, CashApp, Zelle, or Paypal

Online prepay and registration here