9th Annual Transformational Intensive For Extraordinary Facilitators

  • Hosted by Everyday Tantra
  • Cabo San Lucas, BCS -

Announcing the 2023 Transformational Intensive for Extraordinary Facilitators! It's our Ninth year, and each one gets better and better!!

Announcing the 2023 Transformational Intensive for Extraordinary Facilitators!

It's our Ninth year, and each one gets better and better!!

This year its in a little slice of heaven, Cabo San Lucas... Beach view Accommodations plus a rooftop with stunning 360 view! It is 7 days, with 9 extraordinary facilitators, and we are opening registration for just 18 attendees. Every year we have sold out!!!

This is the greatest creative inspiration Peter and I have ever created. It's a culmination of our life's work thus far.

We have spent the last 8 years now traveling the world learning and practicing these tools and now I want to share them with you.

So many of you have asked for the steps, for a training to be able to do what we do, well I'm going to offer you one better.... we are going to offer you an intensive, a "Monique & Peter Boot Camp" if you will, with myself and some other extraordinary facilitators, to help you find out what's in the way of you being able to offer your greatest gift to the world, to your clients, workshop attendees, partners, and every aspect of your life. Always remember YOU! You are the gift!!

Let's start with the dates November 1-8, 2023

I have assembled some of the most incredible facilitators on the planet into one place.

This year’s lineup includes:

Monique Darling,

Peter Petersen,

Major Tom,

James Stevenson,

Taina Ixchel,

Lawrence Lanoff,

Shawn Roop,

Reid Mihalko,

Cathy Vartuli,

(We will be following any local Covid safer protocols, and each teacher will do their best to be here in person, but because we can't know the state of the world, or travel bans etc... if they can't be there in person, they will still be with us via Zoom.)

International experts in the disciplines of :

Awaken As Love

Authenticity and Vulnerability

Sacred Sxxuality

Emotional Release

Radical Self Acceptance

Personal Accountability

Energetic Mastery

Tantra - moving in the unknown, making love in the unknown.

Orgasmic Touch

Personal Rapport

Fearless Relating

Practitioner Financial Stability (business savvy to make money doing what you love)


Kink Tantra Blending

Virtual Offerings (Bringing your gifts Online)

Business Coaching

Authentic Relating

Erotic Anatomy Experts

Meditation and Mindful Movement

Somatic and Integral Tantra

It will be limited to 18 participants, an intimate group, that will work, play, connect, be vulnerable, learn, expand, and transform together.

We have crammed the juiciest, the most divine, the most potent things we have learned into these 7 days. This will push you. Wherever you are at in your practice, whether you are just getting started and could use a wider range of tools, or you have been facilitating for years and have reached a plateau, or you are going strong but in danger of settling into a comfort zone. This will invite you to new levels, to deeper depths. We are offering the steps that we took (concentrated), real world tools for practitioners who are ready to take their next step, fundamentals for advanced studies, including offering my top mistakes and the greatest gifts we got from them, so you won't have to make them!

Intrigued yet?

We call it The Transformational Intensive for Extraordinary Facilitators.

When: November 1-8, 2023

Where: Cabo San Lucas, Mexico

The Main House ~ Luxury, private courtyard with heated saltwater pool and hot tub.

Beach View Condos walking distance to house to share with other participants. All in a gated community right on the shore of Cabo San Lucas. Full kitchens, two bathrooms, washer/dryer, plus snorkels and beach stuff in every condo.

First come first served for room and bed choice. Some singles and a few shared queens.

Cost: It's $3995 ($3495 first 5 tickets sold!) $1500 deposit holds your spot ~ includes training, all materials, housing and breakfast and lunch and all the delicious networking, sunshine and amazing people for 7 days!

This price includes 7 days of direct transmissions, worksheets, pod time to go deeper with one another, Daily morning practices, Qigong, dance, meditation. 9 of the top Facilitators on the planet offering their top business and facilitator/practitioner tools and skill-set.

The 7 days will include:

How to do your own inner work on a consistent basis so that you are available to be the most impeccable conscientious present facilitator/practitioner you can be and ultimately how to find your own path of falling in love with yourself.

Check in’s every morning, as we help you integrate the lessons from the day before, and introduce the new presenter and why I chose them to add to our adventure, how they shaped my life/practice. Intimate sharing groups, and break out groups to further share your gifts.

The Fundamentals

Tips, Skills, & a frank discussion on what it takes to stay sane when the road IS home.

Navigate clients that wish more ongoing work, when you won't be back for another 6 months (Empowerment VS Enabling).

Get super clear on self-care requirements, and ask for you what you need ahead of time from your hosts/producers

Establish networking circles, create healthy win/wins with hosts/producers of your events in each city

And The big one...How to prioritize your time, delegate to others, take time off to sight see, yet create a sustainable financial system for ongoing classes, workshops and sessions."

Ways to support life change, relationships transitions, and how to bring a person into pure purpose.

Ideas to impact the societal level with your gifts and wisdom.

Gain the skills to create ideal, repeat, high dollar clientele.

How to not facilitate/practice as a wounded healer.

"Dangerous Tantra"

Learn how to incorporate hands on demonstrations into your educational offerings!

How to break through belief systems, first your own so you can see more clearly past your own filters and then how to help your clients and workshop attendees break through theirs.

Learn to see life using pleasure as your gauge.

And how to dive into the delicious land of Energetics

A learnable approach to the business of being a sxx educator that would augment your strengths, make you more prolific with less stress, inspire your fans and clients, free up more time for you to relax and recharge, and help you make money without feeling “salesy,” pushy, or creepy?

Learn 3 crushing mistakes most sxx educators are making that leave them frustrated, burnout and broke, and the successful business models and practices that will help you turn your calling into a life-long, successful career.

and sooooooo much more!!!!

We will close out this incredible week of extraordinariness with an Energetic Sxx Play Party to help integrate everything you have learned this week.

All of this for the outrageous price of only $3995 5 Early bird spots for $3495 or put down your $1500 deposit

SAVE YOUR SPOT HERE on Eventbright or you can contact us and send us money directly and save some money on the Eventbright fees.

You can contact Monique here at 619 601 8852 or email at or Peter here at 6193053402 or

Read other people's Testimonials here:

"I arrived at the intensive a bit reserved, unsure why I was there, seeking...something. I was completely immersed in the deepest most passionate teachings of ten of the most extraordinary facilitators I have ever known. I found amongst my peer group similarly extraordinary individuals. I left the intensive with so much confidence, drive, so much ownership of myself. You know what? I am an extraordinary individual.

We all are. You are. You deserve to know that without question, without limitation. And if you already have that locked down... you get to go even deeper. I was triggered, I was overwhelmed, I was expanded. A switch was flipped from off to on. I am on now."


"Do it. Best investment I've made in to myself and the growth of my business. It empowered me to get clear about what my gifts are and how to share them. It inspired me to get creative and productive. I've made a fb biz page, designed biz cards and have been steadily plucking away at my website (that I've been "working" on for over a year) and I think most importantly it helped me work through some of my own shit. I've now come to realize we aren't really able to be at our best for our clients when we aren't continually working on ourselves. I originally saw this retreat as a "gift" to myself and now I see it as a well worth and necessary investment in myself as a person as well as a business woman. I came back with clarity of what I want in my relationships and life. And with the tools to get it. It has taught me how to be a better parent, lover and friend. Oh and super bonus- my orgasms have become even more intense and pleasurable. I couldn't be happier and I am so thankful to Monique for having the wisdom to know exactly who to invite as teachers."


"Knowledge is power and I feel like dynamite after the intensive. I've been to many retreats and workshops and this one is so packed full of useful applicable information the value is definitely there plus all of the networking opportunities with leaders in the field, different perspectives, practices you can incorporate into your own work, the confidence and tools you will gain etc. a priority in any facilitator's continuing education!"


"Well I learned how to be my best self now and that I can be a teacher and learned about my limiting beliefs and how to change the ones that weren't serving me into something better, and a lot more, it really opened my eyes to the possibilities🙂"


"Most important for me are inner peace and calm and higher efficacy in my work with clients. If I start to feel stressed or "off" I connect to my yoni and the life force starts to flow through me again. I learned a lot but most importantly I am a changed person"



Monique Darling, author of 'Beyond Cuddle Party' and workshop facilitator extraordinaire has led over 2000 workshops in the past 10 years. She is the founder of Everyday Tantra an organization dedicated to empowering people who are questioning the assumptions of how their life should be and to offering tools for self expression that create trust, inner knowing and wisdom to enjoy the life they have. Monique has taught at colleges across the US including Yale. She has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the globe. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating. Learn more about Monique by going to

Peter Petersen's 3 main passions in life are movement, music, and meditation. He has been a certified Sheng Zhen Qigong teacher for the last 20. He has taught in health clubs, hospitals, retirement villas, and several different wellness/spa resorts in Mexico and the United States, such as Rancho La Puerta, Mayacamas Ranch, and Present Moment Retreat. Peter is the co-founder of and has traveled and taught with Monique Darling for over the last 8 years teaching Tantra and his own style of qigong/dance all over North America, the EU, Asia, and Australia. Helping people to see what is intensely alive in their heart and helping them to export that passion to the world is why Peter loves his job and will do this till his final breath.

Major Tom: Major is an intimacy coach/facilitator at, co-founder of Temple Of Hedonism, and Co-Producer of

Trained as an authentic relating facilitator, he utilizes Integral Theory to create exercises in different practices acting, movement, and intimacy. My innovation and penchant for levity creates a brave experiential container for people to blossom open, and deepen the relationship to self and others. Authentic Relating Games allow you to intimately know yourself and create a space for decentralized processing.

His intention is to show up authentically to create safety and permission for others to show up fully. My containers are for deep intimacy and growth. I believe when we locate and push against our edges, that is where the growth can happen.

Taina Taina Ixchel, MA, is a Shamanic and Tantric Educator, Priestess, Facilitator, Coach, and exquisite Latina goddess queen. She helps people become more powerful and magnetic, create deeper connections with themselves and others so that they can have more fulfilling relationships and lives. Taina has a Master’s Degree, is a Tantric Counselor, a certified Energetic Relationship Practitioner, Holistic Health and Wellness Coach and Theta Healing Practitioner. She's been practicing Tantra for over 10 years since she was initiated into one-on-one esoteric training with a Master who told her it was her destiny to teach this Love. For over 3 years, she has facilitated monthly Red Tent: Sacred Priestess Circles for womxn to create community and embody the Divine Feminine. Taina also coaches singles and couples to live freely and fully empowered through Tantric and Shamanic principles and hosts regular workshops in San Diego and virtually. She is also the Author of the upcoming book “The Lotus Flower: An Origin Story”. Taina truly embodies pleasure and play as a path to healing, freedom and living a joyful life and specializes in helping others express their highest, most loving, magnetic and playful selves. It’s time for us all to live our fullest expressions. For the greatest good of all. Find out more:

James Stevenson - Founder & Instructor of Awaken as LoveJames’s passion is to help call forth our human potential and our soul. His weave brings together more than 22 years experience in techniques, practices and information from the cutting edge of Neuroscience, Tantra, Biodanza, Shamanic & Energy Work, Integral theory and Taoist practices to create a spirituality that is rooted in the body. His evolutionary approach is to work on all lines, levels, states and parts of ourselves in bringing forth our fullest potential.

His shamanic work includes being Vision Quest rites of passage guide, holding Sweatlodge Ceremonies as well as Sacred Cacao Rituals. He is also part of the International School of Temple Arts faculty. He has been dancing Biodanza since 2003 and now works as a teacher and a didactic teacher (qualified to teach other teachers in Biodanza Schools).

Lawrence Lanoff: One of the most fascinating people on the teaching landscape is Lawrence Lanoff. Truly a renaissance man, Lawrence is a film director, photographer, author… and a deeply enlightened healer and teacher. He calls himself a “rubber meets the road kinda guy” as he applies this practical essence to his artistic and spiritual skills over a 20 year span, to an amazing array of disciplines, starting with a couple of dream jobs – the directing of movies and as a photographer for Playboy Magazine.

Over the past several years, Lawrence has been in a process of refining his radical teachings, leading people into a new kind of freedom, literally deprogramming them from the sleep imposed by cults and religions. What is slowly evolving is a revolutionary new theory of consciousness that incorporates evolution, symbolism, metaphor, neurobiology, and their relationship to healing, spiritual evolution, and neuro-economics — the neural pathways that influences our deepest feelings about self worth and money, and, of course, sex and relationships.

Reid Mihalko, sex and relationship geek, helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, keen insight, and comprehensive, pleasure-focused sexual health information.

Reid frequently speaks at colleges and universities on healthy relationship skills, and regularly appears in the media sharing his views on shame-free sexuality. In 2018, Reid began a restorative justice-based accountability process, stepping down from teaching, to address sexual misconduct and harms from 2010 that had been courageously shared as a result of #MeToo. The formal, year-long process was shared publicly and can be found at

Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 50,000 people. He has appeared in media such as Netflix’ Chelsea Does... with Chelsea Handler, Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages. Learn more at

Shawn Roop has been a student and teacher of life wisdom since 1989. He is the founder of Tantra Quest, author of Pathway to Love: 28 days to self love and holds a Bachelors in Sociology, is a Master Practitioner of NLP, a Certified Tantric Therapist and a Certified Master Tantric Counselor. Featured in numerous media appearances on NBC, Fox, E!, The Travel Channel, USA and Playboy Radio, as well as other radio and print articles, Shawn is proud to share his work with the intention to support healthy embodiment, personal empowerment and spiritual growth. You can see his work at

Cathy Vartuli is a PhD Engineer and Research Scientist turned Relationship and Sex Educator, a best selling author, and has taught and presented internationally on relationship skills, body image, trauma release, and sexuality. She mentors and consults with sex-positive marketers to help them reach more people in more powerful ways. She knows how painful it can be to have a message and skills to share, but be too shy or awkward to share, and loves helping people find their authentic voice so they can make a difference in the world. Knowing the work she and her partners did was valuable, but not reaching a larger audience, she used her research skills to understand how heart-centered and inspirational marketing could be used for subjects on intimacy and sexuality. She went from someone who wouldn’t show her photo on websites (for fear her weight would harm her partner’s reputations) to sharing her videos – over 4 million views on YouTube, her story and her weight with over 50,000 people, and getting standing ovations from stage. Cathy’s produced and marketed numerous live events in the sex-positive educator and marketing space, including Sex Geek Summer Camp 2014, 2015, 2016, and 2017, Sex Geek Design Studio, Sex Geek Conservatory, Speakers Kit, Sex Geek Sponsorship 101, as well as webinars, summits, and launches. She’s presented marketing skills at Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit, CatalystCon, Converge Con, AASECT, as well as Sex Geek Summer Camp each year, Conservatory, Speakers Kit, Sex Geek Sponsorship 101. Her focuses are on Affiliate Marketing, Content Marketing, Copy Writing and using Story, and Youtube. She helps sex educators leverage their shyness and awkwardness to relate to potential clients in authentic ways, and to inspire the growth and change they want to create. You can find out more about Cathy at

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