Poly Seeking Anchors Matchmaking by Second Glances

As spring awakens the world around us, what’s budding in your life? What does it mean to truly thrive in partnership? Bloom is a space to explore these questions and connect with like-minded polyamorous individuals who are seeking deep, intentional relationships.

This structured matchmaking event is designed for those who desire an anchor partner—someone deeply invested in their life, fostering the kind of intimacy and connection that allows both partners to flourish.

Join us for an afternoon of engaging conversation, meaningful connections, and the possibility of something new taking root.

Event Details

📅 Date: Sunday, March 30, 2025

⏰ Time: 1:00 – 5:00 PM

📍 Location: A welcoming indoor venue in Oakland (exact address shared with ticket holders before the event).

Schedule

1. ⏳ 1:00 – 1:30 PM – Check-in & Mingling; Arrive, grab refreshments, and settle in.
2. 🌿 1:30 PM – Opening Circle; Welcome and introduction to the event format.
3. 🌱 1:45 PM – 4:40 PM – Group Rotations & Intermissions; Five rounds of small group discussions with guided conversation prompts. Intermissions between rounds for mingling and casual connection.
4. 🌸 4:40 PM – 5:00 PM – Closing Circle & Mingling; Final reflections, last connections, and clean-up.

What to Expect

🌱 Structured Rotations & Themed Conversations

You'll move through small group rotations, engaging in guided discussions centered around growth, transformation, and what it means to thrive in life and partnership. Our conversation prompts will help you share what’s growing in your life and what you seek in deep, meaningful connection.

💌 Facilitated Matchmaking

You’ll receive a matchmaking card to note anyone you’d like to connect with further. We will facilitate matches that are mutual, ensuring a stress-free way to continue building connections beyond the event. Our structure allows you to indicate if you're interested in matching with someone platonically and/or romantically.

🍵 Light Refreshments & A Welcoming Atmosphere

Enjoy refreshments in a relaxed and inclusive space designed for ease, warmth, and genuine connection.

Who This Event Is For

This event is for polyamorous individuals seeking an anchor partnership. While anchor partnerships can take many forms (hierarchical, non-hierarchical, or anything in between), this event is for those looking to build a relationship based on deep involvement, mutual investment, and emotional intimacy.

All genders and sexual orientations are welcome.

All ages are welcome, though most attendees tend to be in their late twenties through forties.

Tickets

🎟 Flash Sale: $24 (available through March 25)

🎟 Regular: $40

🎟 At the Door (within 24 hours of the event): $50

💌 Want a Discount? Subscribe to our email list at secondglances.love for a one-time discount code ($28Early Bird, $32 Regular)

Come Plant the Seeds of New Connection

This isn’t just another dating event—it’s a space for deep connection, meaningful conversation, and the possibility of something beautiful taking root.