Cost:

Free for submissives or FemDoms attending this month’s Commanding Grace.

Free for returning subs who have served at previous teas.

$25 for submissives who want the training but are not attending Commanding Grace.

⚠️ Vetting Required

All participants must complete vetting before the event.

Location details will ONLY be sent after vetting is successfully completed.

This training is for individuals who are active in the local kink community.

📢 Policy Update (Starting January 2026)

Beginning January 2026, this training will be mandatory for all submissives who have not attended at least two previous Teas.

This ensures consistency, confidence, and safety for everyone involved in service.

Returning subs with two or more teas completed are still welcome to attend training as refreshers or for skill-building, but it will not be required.

📜 Event Description

Join us for a focused and structured Submissive Training designed to prepare participants for serving at Commanding Grace. This two-hour session will introduce the layout of the space, outline expectations for day-of service, and provide hands-on instruction in positions, movement, protocol, and preparation tasks.

Submissives will learn:

• A guided tour of the service space

• The schedule and flow of Commanding Grace

• Key submissive positions and transitions

• Protocols for serving and interacting respectfully

• Food and beverage preparation for the upcoming event

This is a supportive, skills-centered environment that emphasizes consent, communication, and high-protocol service.

⏰ Timeline (3:30 PM – 5:30 PM)

3:15 – 3:40 PM | Arrival & Check-In

• Quick review of boundaries, expectations, and safety

• Grounding before training begins

3:40 – 3:55 PM | Space Tour

• Walkthrough of the areas used during service

• Storage, movement routes, prep zones

• Q&A

3:55 – 4:10 PM | Day-of Tea Overview & Positions & Protocols

• Review of the Commanding Grace schedule

• Service assignments and rotations

• Expected demeanor, communication style, and etiquette

4:10 – 5:25 PM | Service & Food Preparation

• Hands-on food prep

• Plating and presentation

• Timing, coordination, and cleanliness standards

5:25 – 5:30 PM | Closing

• Final questions

• Review of next-day arrival times

• Release

📌 Additional Notes

• Submissives who have previously served at our teas are welcome to attend at no cost.

• Please wear comfortable, movement-friendly clothing for training.

• This is a training event, no play is involved.