The enchanting world of Aura is a space created by and for self-identified dominant women (of all gender expressions) and femmes (of all gender identities) to cultivate a sense of community; to foster connections with each other; and with those who want to serve them. Aura is a vibrant celebration of sharing, building, and nurturing a flourishing and enduring community that transcends the boundaries of the ordinary!

More than just an event, Aura is a perfect opportunity to connect with other like-minded individuals who share a passion for exploration, learning, and play. Immerse yourself at Aura, join the Gauntlet, sample the house tops, make new friends, and play the night away! Come add your energy to an event where the spirit of community still thrives. Let Aura provide a canvas for you to narrate your own journey of connection, discovery, and growth.

New Aura Guidelines - Read if you want to come.

Aura, organized by AfterDark, is an inclusive, community-focused event that creates a safe, respectful, and celebratory space for dominant women and femmes.

As such, Aura is an event where attendance is limited exclusively to:

1.Dominants who…

identify as “women” of any gender presentation; and/or

identify as “femmes” of any gender identity; and…

Submissives of all gender identities and gender presentation.

1. Dominants who…
2. identify as “women” of any gender presentation; znd/or
3. identify as “femmes” of any gender identity; and…
4. Submissives of all gender identities and gender presentation.

To maintain this unique environment, the following polices is in place:

Pre-Approval Required

All attendees must be pre-approved by the Aura team to ensure alignment with the event’s values and dynamics. Individuals known to AfterDark and in good standing with us will likely be automatically approved since they have a demonstrated history.

Application Process

Prospective attendees must complete an application to access tickets Approvals are based on:

1. A demonstrated understanding of consent
2. Respect for the community ethos
3. A commitment to inclusivity

After You Apply

You may receive one of the following responses:

1. Approval – granting you access to purchase tickets for Aura events.
2. Denial – if we determine the event may not be the right fit.
3. Request for a call – in some cases, we may ask for a brief vetting interview before making a decision.

Application Deadlines

To allow enough time for vetting, please submit your application at least 7 days before an Aura event. Once approved, you’ll be able to attend future Aura events without reapplying.

Expectations and Accountability

1. Limitations on Play: Everyone is expected to contribute to the creation of a safe, respectful, and celebratory space for **dominant women and femmes. **Therefore, topping is exclusively limited to attendees who identify as women (of any gender presentation) or femmes (of any gender identity), while bottoming is open to all gender identities and presentations. Failure to comply with this rule may result in removal from the event.
2. Wristband Reminders: AfterDark uses a two-color wristband system that is required for all attendees (ask at the front desk if you want to change colors during the event):
3. Yellow Wristbands (solid): indicate that the wearer consents to being approached respectfully to discuss potential play.
4. Red Wristbands (pattern): indicate that the wearer does not consent to be approached about play, going on a date, or anything similar. If you cannot see someone’s wristband, treat them as if they are wearing a red wristband; claiming you “didn’t see someone’s wristband” is not acceptable. Failure to comply with this rule will result in removal from the event.

Apply to get vetted here

Expectations and Accountability

1. Limitations on Play: Everyone is expected to contribute to the creation of a safe, respectful, and celebratory space for dominant women and femmes. Therefore, topping is exclusively limited to attendees who identify as women (of any gender presentation) or femmes (of any gender identity), while bottoming is open to all gender identities and presentations. Failure to comply with this rule may result in removal from the event.
2. Wristband Reminders: AfterDark uses a two-color wristband system that is required for all attendees (ask at the front desk if you want to change colors during the event):
3. Yellow Wristbands (solid): indicate that the wearer consents to being approached respectfully to discuss potential play.
4. Red Wristbands (pattern): indicate that the wearer does not consent to be approached about play, going on a date, or anything similar. If you cannot see someone’s wristband, treat them as if they are wearing a red wristband; claiming you “didn’t see someone’s wristband” is not acceptable. Failure to comply with this rule will result in removal from the event.

Aura Highlights:

1. Date & Time: Friday, March 21, 8:00 PM - 1:00 AM
2. Location: Stopgap, San Francisco, CA (the exact venue address will be sent to ticket holders only for privacy and safety reasons, but it is in SoMa).
3. Features:
4. Icebreakers - participate in the infamous OG Gauntlet!
5. Multiple play areas equipped for BDSM and sexual activities.
6. Accessible ground floor with accessible play equipment.
7. Dedicated non-sexual cuddle room.
8. Stickers and wristband system to facilitate connections.
9. Dedicated social area, dungeon, fuck room, and cuddle room.
10. Delicious spread, including vegan options.

Inclusivity & Safety:

We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.

For Aura specifically, guests of all genders are welcome at this, however, it is an event centering self-identified dominant women (of all gender expressions) and femmes (of all gender identities). If you do NOT identify as a woman or femme, you are encouraged to attend the party as a bottom, and must refrain from topping throughout the event.

Consent and respectful behavior required. Read the event rules and consent guidelines.

Accessibility Notes:

The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is fully-accessible, including lockers, social areas, play areas, and two accessible bathrooms. The basement of the venue can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs are available for free at the front desk. There are colored lights in use throughout the venue, including rotating “party lights” for ambiance. Cell phones are prohibited from being used in the venue and must be stored; however, you may speak to a host about reasonable accommodations if needed for things such as continuous glucose monitoring.

COVID-19 Safety Measures:

1. All guests MUST take a rapid test on the day of the event, before arriving, and write the date on the test or immediately next to the test.
2. Take a photo of the negative test & show it to the door guard when you arrive.
3. We will have a limited number of tests for sale at $25 each in case anyone is unable to pretest.

Dress Code:

Aura reflects a theme of empowerment and dominance, so classic outfits, (leather, latex, corsets, suits, harnesses, thigh-high boots, gloves, etc.) are always welcome. Other kinky/sexy outfits, or fetishwear that align with the theme are also great options.

While dressing to the theme is strongly encouraged in order to help maintain the immersive ambiance of the night, lingerie or general fetishwear are also welcome as are dungeon blacks. We encourage you to dress up - make an effort to impress but if nothing else comes to mind then dress as you would for a fancy night out.

Please be mindful that you might have to wait in line outside (it may be cold) and that you are welcome to arrive in regular clothes and then change into your kinky outfit once you get inside!

Tickets:

Presale tickets are highly recommended to save money and secure your spot. Ticket prices are tiered as follows and include all fees.

1. Tier 1 - $45 per single, $80 per couple.
2. Tier 2 - $60 per single, $110 per couple
3. Tier 3 - $75 per single, $140 per couple
4. Door - $100 per single, $190 per couple
5. Financial Access: $30 ($50 per couple)
6. Volunteer: $0

We recommend getting your tickets as soon as possible! If you are a member of one of our partner groups, please check with your group for discount codes.

Apply to get vetted here

Consent is Paramount

Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is to provide some guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events.

Please make sure you read and understand our event rules and consent guidelines before you come to any AfterDark event. By coming to an event you acknowledge that you understand the rules and agree to abide by them. If you have any questions or need clarification on any of our rules or guidelines please contact us before coming to an event.

Any consent concerns can be confidentially given to the hosts at the event or by email at info@afterdark-events.com.