AURA - The Bay Area's Premier Event for Dominant Women/Femmes

The captivating world of Aura is a space intentionally created by and for self-identified dominant women (of all gender expressions) and femmes (of all gender identities) to cultivate a sense of community, foster connections with each other, and with those who want to serve them. Within the captivating ambiance of Aura, guests are encouraged to embark on a journey of exploration and discover a rich tapestry of experiences that form the heart of this unique gathering.

Aura is a celebration of connection and play, where like-minded individuals come together. More than just an event, Aura is a perfect opportunity to connect with others who share a passion for exploration, learning, and play. This event transcends the ordinary, offering a space where dominance is embraced and service is celebrated, all while nurturing a flourishing and enduring community spirit.

Aura isn’t just another night of exploration—it’s a chance to write your own story, create lasting connections, and dive deep into the possibilities that only a space like this can offer. Let Aura provide a canvas for you to narrate your own journey of connection, discovery, and growth. Immerse yourself in Aura: make friends, join the Gauntlet, sample the house tops, or play the night away, and add your energy to an event where the spirit of community still thrives.

Aura Highlights:

Date & Time: Saturday, November 9, 8:00 PM - 1:00 AM

Location: Stopgap, San Francisco, CA (the exact venue address will be sent to ticket holders only for privacy and safety reasons, but it is in SoMa).

Features:

• Icebreakers - participate in the famous (or infamous) Gauntlet!
• Multiple play areas equipped for BDSM and sexual activities.
• Accessible ground floor with accessible play equipment.
• Dedicated non-sexual cuddle room.
• Stickers and wristband system to facilitate connections.
• Dedicated social area, dungeon, fuck room, and cuddle room.
• Delicious spread, including vegan options.

Inclusivity & Safety:

• We warmly invite and encourage individuals of all ages, races, ethnicities, gender identities, sexual orientations, and abilities to attend our event. We are committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment where everyone can feel safe, respected, and celebrated. Your unique identity and experiences enrich our community, and we look forward to sharing this special experience with you.
• Guests of all genders are welcome at this event! However Aura is an event that centers self-identified dominant women (of all gender expressions) and femmes (of all gender identities). If you do NOT identify as a woman or femme, you are encouraged to attend the party as a bottom, and must refrain from topping throughout the event. 
• Consent and respectful behavior required. Read the event rules and consent guidelines.

Accessibility Notes:

• The entrance to the space is on the ground floor and is fully-accessible, including lockers, social areas, play areas, and two accessible bathrooms. The basement of the venue can only be reached via stairs. There will be music playing throughout the night, and ear plugs are available for free at the front desk. There are colored lights in use throughout the venue, including rotating “party lights” for ambiance. Cell phones are prohibited from being used in the venue and must be stored; however, you may speak to a host about reasonable accommodations if needed for things such as continuous glucose monitoring.  

COVID-19 safety measures: 

• All guests MUST take a rapid test on the day of the event, before arriving, and write the date on the test or immediately next to the test
• Take a photo of the negative test & show it to the door guard when you arrive.
•  We will have a limited number of tests for sale at $25 each in case anyone is unable to pretest

Dress Code:

Aura reflects a theme of empowerment and dominance, so classic outfits, (leather, latex, corsets, suits, harnesses, thigh-high boots, gloves, etc.) are always welcome. Other kinky/sexy outfits, or fetishwear that align with the theme are also great options.

While dressing to the theme is strongly encouraged in order to help maintain the immersive ambiance of the night, lingerie or general fetishwear are also welcome as are dungeon blacks. We encourage you to dress up - make an effort to impress but if nothing else comes to mind then dress as you would for a fancy night out.

Please be mindful that you might have to wait in line outside (it may be cold) and that you are welcome to arrive in regular clothes and then change into your kinky outfit once you get inside!

Tickets:

Presale tickets are recommended to secure a spot and save money. Ticket prices are tiered as follows. Each tier has a fixed number of tickets.

• Tier 1 - $40 (Early bird)
• Tier 2 - $50
• Tier 3 - $60
• Tier 4 - $75
• Door Tickets - $100 (includes rapid test kit)
• Financial Access (while available): $25
• Volunteer: $0

All tiers will have tickets available until the tier sells out. Lower tiers will sell out fairly quickly so we recommend getting your tickets as soon as possible!

If you are a member of one of our partner groups, please check with your group for discount codes. 

Consent is Paramount

Part of our responsibility in fostering a consent culture is to provide some guidance to help prevent consent incidents from happening at our events.

Please make sure you read and understand our event rules and consent guidelines before you come to any AfterDark event. By coming to an event you acknowledge that you understand the rules and agree to abide by them. If you have any questions or need clarification on any of our rules or guidelines please contact us before coming to an event.

Any consent concerns can be confidentially given to the hosts at the event or by email at info@afterdark-events.com.