Avoid the Icks, Find the Clicks: A Modern Dating Survival Guide

This class will be held LIVE online via Zoom — Zoom links are sent out 3 days prior and then again 1 hour prior to start time. The class will be recorded and available for a limited time shortly following the class. Registration deadline: 1 hour prior to class Pacific. No day-of cancellations.

Listen—dating in the 21st century is a lot. You're either getting ghosted, dealing with weirdly aggressive "hey" messages, or dodging catfish and bots with every swipe. And that's just online. IRL? You're expected to magically meet people organically like it's 1995. Where? The grocery store? A pottery class? Do people even talk to strangers anymore?

That's where Dirty Lola comes in. Whether you're over swiping, unsure where to mingle, or trying to figure out how to make a move without coming off like a weirdo, she's got you covered. Lola will walk you through how to craft a dating profile that gets responses (no fish pics, no bios that just say "ask me"), how to strike up a convo without awkward panic, and how to spot red flags before you end up on a 3-hour date with someone who thinks Andrew Tate is "misunderstood."

And because dating can be a minefield, she'll also cover safety—from spotting creeps to setting boundaries. Whether you're looking for casual fun, a long-term partner, or something in between, this class will help you navigate the wild world of modern dating without losing your sanity (or dignity).

Dirty Lola is an award-winning sex edutainer, speaker, and self-proclaimed dildo slinger. Known for her live sex ed, Q&A show Sex Ed A Go-Go, and as a Sexpert on the Emmy-nominated Netflix docuseries The Principles of Pleasure, Lola has spent over a decade working to end the stigma and shame surrounding sex and sexuality.

Having started her journey sharing personal discoveries with polyamory and kink online, Lola now uses her knowledge, warm candor, and public platforms to teach the masses in person and rapt Internet and television audiences.

We're offering a limited number of free class spots to folks with financial need; please fill out this form if you are interested. Recipients will be chosen based on need and contacted at least 3 days prior to class to confirm.