BARE CONNECTIONS

Bare Connections is a relaxed, male-only space where men can gather to explore spanking in all its forms.

Spanking isn’t just about impact—it’s about camaraderie, connection, and play.

Whether you’re a seasoned spanko or simply curious, this party is designed to let you engage at your own pace—no pressure, no expectations.

From over-the-knee to straps, floggers, and whips, you’ll find plenty of room to explore, watch, or connect with others who share your interest.

What to Expect

1. 1:30 PM – Doors Open - This gives everyone time to arrive and settle in before we start.
2. 2:00 - 2:30 PM - Arrival & Connection - Ease into the afternoon with time to meet others, settle in, and go over the house rules together. This is your chance to get acquainted and set the tone before the play begins.
3. 2:30–6:00 PM – Open Play - Play stations include a St. Andrew’s cross, spanking bench, kneeling benches, massage tables, and wall space for creative positioning. The vibe is chill and playful—sometimes laughter, sometimes sharp swats, always grounded in respect.
4. 4:00 PM Doors Close - Please arrive before 4pm if you would like to join us
5. Aftercare & Downtime - There’s always space to slow down—share snacks, sip coffee, cuddle, or sit and watch between rounds. Aftercare is part of the play here.

What You’ll Take Away

1. A supportive, male-only environment to explore spanking openly
2. The freedom to play, watch, or simply get a feel for what spanking parties are like
3. Opportunities to connect with like-minded men in a relaxed, low-pressure space
4. A felt experience of consent, negotiation, and community-centered kink

About the Facilitators

This event is led by Dan, a long-standing member of the spanking community and a trusted facilitator within The Kink Collective. Dan brings his passion for spanking and his easygoing style to create a space that feels safe, playful, and welcoming to all male-identified attendees.

Alongside Dan, other Kink Collective members help hold the container with the same guiding philosophy: People Before Kink. Together, they ensure the afternoon runs with care, consent, and community at the center.

House Rules

1. Consent is non-negotiable—always ask first.
2. Clean up after yourself (supplies provided).
3. Know your limits—negotiation forms available.
4. 18+ | Sober play only (moderate alcohol permitted).

Event Details

1. When: Saturday, September 27th (or the 4th Saturday of the month)
2. Time: 2:00–6:00 PM EST.
3. Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem, 113 E 125th St., NY, NY 10035 (Push the outside door firmly; one flight of stairs, not wheelchair accessible.)
4. Who: For male-identified folks, 18+

Tickets

1. Advance: $40 Regular | $30 Member
2. Door: $50 Regular | $40 Member

🎟️ Purchase Your Advance Tickets, Here!

Bare Connections is a space to connect, laugh, play, and discover what spanking can mean for you. Come curious, leave connected.