BDSM Fuck-Ups: How They Happen and How to Move Past Them with Carmen Monoxide

BDSM Fuck-Ups: How They Happen and How to Move Past Them

No one is perfect, and everyone is bound to screw up in some capacity over time. Preventing problems before they happen is great, but how you respond to a scene gone sideways or making a mistake is equally important, with big repercussions for everyone involved. This class utilizes discussion and case study-style re-enactments to break down common errors and best practices for players.

Presenter Bio:

[Carmen Monoxide](https://fetlife.com/users/2315448)

A former teacher with a lifelong passion for the bizarre and filthy, Carmen Monoxide (she/her) also works as a kink professional, event organizer, sex educator, and relationship coach. She has presented for small, medium, and large events across North America. She founded Femme Fatale, a kink event company, and throws monthly parties in the Washington, DC area. She sometimes takes her clothes off and performs onstage and on camera, and is passionate about helping people overcome fear and shame in order to have authentic, fulfilling, sexy experiences.

SOJ class notes:

This class is offered only as a virtual class.

This class is the second in SOJ's Compassionate Kink series - a once-monthly virtual class series for 2024 where we will explore personal growth and self-compassion in kink, BDSM, relationships, and other reflections that will improve how we relate to ourselves, others, and function in the community. Please stay tuned for the rest of the series!

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About Society of Janus

Society of Janus is and has always been an organization made up of the community and in service to the community. We are stronger for our diversity, including adults of all genders, orientations, colors, ethnicities, roles, and experience levels. We welcome all who have a genuine interest in kink and who respect each other's rights to self-expression, self-exploration, and authenticity. At each and every one of our events, we will strive to maintain and enforce a respectful and safe space for all attendees in celebration of this diversity, and expect the same of all attendees.

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The Society of Janus is a not-for-profit, all volunteer, San Francisco-based education and support organization devoted to the art of hot, consensual and non-exploitative BDSM.

Janus provides an opportunity to meet others with similar interests in a safe, relaxed atmosphere. Society of Janus is open to people of all genders, sexual orientations, roles, and experience levels. Janus members are from all over the SF Bay Area. We host and sponsor events in many locations around the bay.