Welcome to Beat & Bang...

Where desire meets rhythm — and the night becomes a living yes.

Beat & Bang is part of The Sanctuary Sessions — our intimate, conscious gatherings held inside The Sanctuary of East Harlem.

Beat & Bang is a BDSM sex party held inside a consent-forward container: kink, connection, and erotic play with clear agreements,clear communication, and a room that’s intentionally curated for adults who know how to move with respect.

If you’ve ever felt the moment when the music drops…and the room drops with it — bodies, breath, impact, mouths, hands, and heat all finding their own honest rhythm — you already know what this night is.

1. This is sex with intention.
2. Kink with consent.
3. A night where “yes” is spoken clearly — and “no” is honored instantly.

THE VIBE

All of The Sanctuary Sessions including Beat & Bang were designed to feel warm, intimate, and quietly seductive — the kind of space where you can breathe a little deeper and settle into yourself.

1. Music-forward energy that keeps the room moving
2. A respectful, sex-positive container with clear boundaries
3. Dim, warm lighting and cozy areas for rest + reconnection
4. Communal energy without pressure or performance

The night is erotic, present, and real — not rushed, not sloppy, not entitled. Just adults playing with intention.

Beat & Bang takes place in a members-based space, shaped by the culture and values of our community — care, intention, and accountability. Membership isn’t required to attend, but joining allows you to engage more fully with our events, receive discounted tickets and free participation in our weekly online conversation room, Conscious Conversations.

WHAT TO EXPECT

Doors Open + Social Hour (8 PM)

1. Arrive, settle in, socialize, and connect with the room. This is your time to meet people, feel the vibe, and get oriented.

Opening Circle + Rule Reading/Doors Close (9 PM)

1. A brief gathering to ground, introduce ourselves, and name our intentions.
2. Doors close after the opening circle to protect the pacing, privacy, and container. Please arrive before 9PM in order to join the party.

BDSM + Erotic Open Play (9:30 PM–1 AM)

1. The space opens into full-spectrum adult play.
2. Expect BDSM scenes, sensuality, power exchange, and sexual play — all welcome as long as it’s negotiated, consensual, and aligned with the room agreements.
3. Expect a wide array of BDSM Furniture, mattresses, social + aftercare couches.

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATORS

Led by Joshua & Cat, The Kink Collective anchors each of The Sanctuary Session’s hold our guiding philosophy: People Before Kink. We hold the container so you can feel safe, grounded, and free to explore in ways that feel right for you.

EVENT DETAILS

📅 Friday, February 20th

⏰ 8 PM – 1 AM -> Doors Close at 9PM

📍 The Sanctuary of East Harlem

1. 113 E 125th St, 10035
2. Arrival Instructions: The black door next to the pizza place
3. (One flight of stairs; not wheelchair accessible.)
4. Please push the door open HARD upon arrival.
5. Age: 21 +
6. Bring a snack or drink to share.
7. Supplies Provided: Towels, lube, and condoms will be provided
8. Dress Code: Wear what makes you feel sexy, comfortable and confident.
9. Photography: No Photos or Videos Allowed.

TICKETS

$40 Members

$50 General Admission

$80 Couples | 2 Tickets

🎟 Reserve Your Space, Click Here.

Or Pay At The Door (Cash, Venmo, Zelle, CashApp, PayPal)