Love rules, protocols, rituals, and control? We've got you!

For many of us, when we entered this lifestyle we thought it would be chalk full of folks who loved power exchange and control. Turns out...not so much. This event is for those looking for that needle in a haystack. Are you looking for a service submissive, a submissive who finds Butler service a joy, one who thinks spreadsheets are the bees knees? Then this is the mixer for you! Come meet others who love rules, protocols, rituals, and control as much as you do. Whether you seek to engage in power exchange on the weekends, long-distance, or 24/7, this is for those looking to build a relationship that centers consensual control and power first and foremost.

Who is this event for?

• Anyone and everyone who loves power exchange, rules, protocols, control, structure! We especially encourage women, trans, and enby potential Owners, D, and M types to join us as our group centers women and the LGBTQIA+ communities. And those seeking these Owners, D, and M types.

What Can I Expect?

• Arrive on time so we can begin at 7:10 the latest.
• The night will be broken into parts that each involve power exchange questions and vanilla games to help get the flow going. You'll be broken into groups of various sizes and get to engage in connection. The night's intention is to help the entire group get to know one another.
• Name tags will be used to allow you to identify yourself and what you are seeking.
• For one special game, we ask that you bring a power exchange book that lit you up and opened your eyes. You could also bring info about a podcast or notes from a power exchange workshop.
• After the structured games & conversations, we'll finish the night with an open mixer to allow everyone to continue building your connections organically.
• Expect to stay later than 9pm. After hosting several dating events, the usual thing that happens are that folks are comfortable, happy, and stay to continue chatting and connecting well past 9pm. Sometimes for another hour after.

Dress Code:

• We ask that folks dress in whatever way makes you feel happy and good. Come ready to express yourself! Have a question? Ask.

Can I come if I am poly and have a partner?

• Yes! This event is for all who are searching for love and/or more partners. However your relationship(s) take shape.

This is NOT for?

• Those who think power exchange is strange or extreme. Those only interested in kink acts (spanking, wax play, tickling) and aren't interested in the underlying tension created when doing those acts in devotion or in service to another.

Event venue serves food and both alcoholic and nonalcoholic drinks. The event is 21+