Beyond Safewords: Considerations for Riskier Kink

Some dynamics flirt with danger, shake up the nervous system, blur the edges of consent, or push the limits—and that’s hot. But when you're playing with fire (sometimes literally) or blanket consent - safewords alone won’t cut it. In this virtual class, we’ll explore what it takes to hold riskier k¡nk with care. Sure, it’s easy to give away blind trust - but that trust is always hypothetical until it’s put to the test. The deeper you want to go, the stronger your container and connection need to be.

💡 What We’ll Explore:

🔒 Safer Containers for Riskier Play Advanced negotiation tools, aftercare strategies, debrief techniques, and methods for integration—because what you do matters, but how you hold it matters more.

🔀 Mixed Signals When “No” might mean “make me,” how do we distinguish real resistance from roleplay? Learn how to read body language and energy shifts to know what’s really going on.

🚧 Pushing Limits How far is too far? We’ll explore the line between challenge and harm, and how to find that sweet spot for exploration.

🧩 Managing Risk & Uncertainty Learn how to prepare for the probable and the possible!

⚠️ If Things Go Wrong When rupture happens—whether subtle or catastrophic—how do you repair it? We'll discuss in-scene pivots, post-scene fix/follow-up, and accountability. What counts as a forgivable offense… and what deserves disqualification?

🚩 Red Flags Learn how to distinguish between thrilling chaos and dangerous deviation & disregard.

Workshop Format:

1. Feel Free to Take Notes! If it helps you learn, we encourage you to use a notepad to jot notes and reflections.
2. Interactions: Expect interactions - between students and instructor, and within breakout rooms. Participate to the extent of your comfort - you can also simply opt-out at any time and observe others!
3. Camera: We highly encourage using the camera during the virtual class so we can all feel present with each other. Of course, this is not mandatory.
4. Screenshots: No, to protect everyone’s privacy, screenshots of the workshop are not allowed. Class materials and detailed notes will be emailed out after the lesson.
5. Who Can Come: This workshop is open to all gender identifications, sexuaI orientations, lifestyles, singles and couples. All experience levels welcome. 18+

Pricing:

1. Early Bird: $15
2. General: $20
3. Last Call: $25

REFUNDS

1. Refunds must be requested 7 days prior to the event.

IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER

It should go without saying, but we are going to spell it out clearly nonetheless: k¡nk and lntimacy activities are inherently risky. Safety requires practice and cannot be guaranteed. By attending, you agree to participate at your own risk, conduct your own risk management, accept known and unknown risks, and agree to hold the event facilitators and facility harmless for any type of physical or emotional harm that may occur.

Questions or concerns?

📧 Email: PagansParadiseNYC@gmail.com🌐

Website: PagansParadise.com📸

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