Explore bicuriosity, pansexuality, & fluid desire in a conscious, shame-free space. Then, enjoy and explore during the after-hours!

Bicurious: Exploring Fluid Desire

Whether you’re exploring pansexuality or feeling your desires shift in ways you can’t yet name—this space is for you. Bicurious is a workshop for anyone navigating the fluid terrain of sexuality with honesty, courage, and care.

This workshop is for anyone exploring attraction beyond the binary or outside what they’ve known before. Whether you identify as bicurious (curious about experiencing attraction to more than one gender), pansexual (attracted to people regardless of gender), or fluid (your desires shift and evolve over time)—or you're still figuring it all out—this space is for you.

You don’t need a label to belong here. We honor exploration, self-discovery, and all the messy, beautiful in-between spaces where identity and desire unfold. You don’t have to have the right label, the right language, or even a clear destination—just a willingness to explore. Together, we’ll unpack common fears, reflect on what it means to explore consciously, and offer tools to help you lean into your truth without pressure, performance, or shame. Wherever you land, your curiosity is valid—and worthy of tending.

After the workshop, we'll have an After-Hours where attendees can choose to explore their desires together in a container specifically curated with this intention in mind.

Union Square Area - Address given in confirmation email additional info. This location is a walkup.

💡 What We’ll Explore:

🌈 What Does “Bicurious” Even Mean? – A judgment-free dive into attraction, orientation, pansexuality, fluidity, and what it means to explore without having it all figured out.

💬 Things to Lean Into, Things to Avoid – Guidance on what to embrace when starting out (like joy, play, consent) and what to look out for (like pressure, performativity, tokenization).

🧠 Strategies for Conscious Exploration – Explore ways to approach new experiences with intention, including tools for self-reflection, boundary-setting, and emotional regulation.

🫀 Common Fears & How to Work With Them – Normalize fears around rejection, identity confusion, “not being queer enough,” or being misunderstood—and how to move through them.

🔄 Integrating Your Experiences – Learn how to reflect after exploratory encounters and turn experience into insight, without over-pathologizing or over-attaching.

🌱 This Is Your Journey – We'll offer practices, prompts, and community strategies for continuing your exploration beyond the workshop—at your own pace, on your own terms.

We are having a 2-part evening of indulgence and learning. Come for the workshop and stay for the After-Hours to meet and optionally interact with other like-minded folks!

Workshop Format:

1. Discussion and Practical Exercises: The workshop will include a mix of discussions and hands-on exercises. You'll have the chance to interact with others, practice communication techniques, and receive feedback.
2. Solo and Group Work: You can come alone or with a partner. During the exercises, you'll have the opportunity to switch partners, which allows for practicing with familiar partners and new acquaintances. This helps simulate both established dynamics and pickup scene scenarios.
3. Dress Code and Interactions: Feel free to dress however you want, whether vanilla or ready to practice. Expect to interact with others for the exercises, at least in terms of communication. More physical engagement will be saved for the After-Hours. We do not pair people up, and encourage guests to make friends and engage to their level of comfort ensuring that all are able to learn and grow. Couples can stay paired the whole time or practice with others if you so choose.
4. This workshop is open to all gender identifications, sexual orientations, lifestyles, singles and couples. All experience levels welcome. 21+.
5. Refunds must be requested 7 days prior to the event.
6. Doors open at 7:30pm and close at 7:40 pm. Please be on time and text ahead if you are delayed.

After-Hours After the Workshop:

After the workshop, the lights go down, the music goes up, and the setting transforms into a playful, immersive environment where you can put your new skills into action. Engage at your own comfort level—whether that means observing, casually chatting by the snacks, or actively pІaying with others form the Workshop.

We’ll have a pІayroom for active engagement, a Low-Stim Room for decompression, and a Kitchen Snack space for casual chats.

Required Disclaimer: It should go without saying, but we are going to spell it out clearly nonetheless: kink activities & intimacy are inherently risky. Safety is something that requires practice and cannot be guaranteed. By attending, you agree to participate at your own risk, conduct your own risk management, and agree to hold the event facilitators and facility harmless for any type of harm that may occur.

Pricing:

● Workshop: Early Bird $30, Classic $40

● Workshop and After-Hours: Early $55, Classic $75

Questions or concerns? Email PagansParadiseNYC@gmail.com

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