BOUND NYC | A Rope Bondage Party for the Queer Men

Welcome to Bound NYC...

A rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just a practice space.

BOUND NYC is a rope bondage party for queer men who want more than just practice space. This is a room where bondage through rope is at the center, full scenes are encouraged, and play can extend into impact, sensation, bondage, and other forms of consensual exploration.

Whether you come with a partner or attend solo, BOUND offers a warm, social, erotic, and play-minded environment for men who want to tie, connect, negotiate, and engage. This is not a class-based event. Light peer guidance and basic instruction may happen naturallyin the room, but the focus is on self-led play and scenes.

Pick-up play is welcome, with attendees expected to negotiate for themselves. The Kink Collective’s MITPISA negotiation forms will be available to support clearer pre-scene communication and pickup play negotiation.

Schedule

7:00 PM | Doors Open

• Arrive, settle in, connect, warm-up...
• Tie casually, if you'd like.

8:00 PM | Rules & Consent Agreements

• We gather briefly to review the rules, agreements and flow of the night.

8:15 PM | Rope and Scenes Open

• Once the room opens, attendees are free to tie, negotiate, play, and explore at their own pace.

The Vibe

• A warm, social, rope-forward atmosphere

• Energetic beats and lighting set to support the room

• Space for floor rope, with mats available

• 2 suspension points and 1 suspension rig

• Furnished with a St. Andrew’s Cross, spanking benches, tieable benches, and floor beds

What to Bring

• Rope & Safety shears, implements, toys, gear, or comfort items you plan to use.
• A shareable snack or drink is always welcome at the communal snack table
• Alcohol is welcome in moderation only. No drugs.

Meet Your Faciliatators

BOUND is held by The Kink Collective facilitators and grounded in our philosophy of People Before Kink — creating a space where consent, clarity, and care come first, and where exploration is supported rather than pushed.

Location and Entry

Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem

Address: 113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035

Entry Instructions: Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above. Push the door hard to enter.

Accessibility: No elevator. 20 steps total.

Tickets

$30 Member’s Ticket | $40 Solo Ticket | $60 Partner Tickets (2)

🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here.

OR pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp

Interested in becoming a member?

You do not need to be a member to attend BOUND. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets, access to additional discounted in-person events, and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]