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BOUND NYC | A Rope Party For the Boys

Welcome to Bound NYC...

Where masculine energy meets rope — and connection becomes the container.

Bound NYC is a rope-centered space rooted in masculine energy, created for men of all orientations and identities to explore rope, power, desire, and connection. Bound NYC is also a part of The Sanctuary Sessions — our intimate gatherings held inside The Sanctuary of East Harlem.

If you’ve ever felt the quiet confidence of rope tightening with intention — breath syncing, bodies communicating, trust building in real time — you already know the medicine of this night.

This is rope with purpose. Masculine energy without performance. Connection without hierarchy.

WHAT TO EXPECT

8:00 PM | Doors Open

  1. Arrive, settle in, and connect with the room.

9:00 PM | Doors Close

All participants must arrive before 9PM.

  1. Doors close at 9PM to protect the container, pacing, and shared agreements.

Welcome Circle + Agreements Review

  1. We arrive together, introduce ourselves, and review consent practices, shared agreements, and house rules.

First Two Hours | Skill-Share + Learning Lab

  1. A social, collaborative rope learning space open to all experience levels — from brand new to rope to seasoned practitioners.
  2. Bring what you know. Bring what you’re curious about.
  3. This is a place to explore without pressure.

Final Two Hours | Rope-Focused Open Play

  1. The space transitions into open rope play. Scenes may include sensual, erotic, or power-exchange elements alongside rope and bondage — provided they are clearly negotiated and aligned with community agreements.

Aftercare + Landing

  1. A gentle closing space to integrate before heading home.

THE VIBE

Bound NYC is grounded, masculine, and intentional — without assumption, pressure, or hierarchy.

  1. A respectful container for the full range of masculine expression
  2. Collaborative, social learning energy early in the night
  3. Rope-focused play later, with space for desire and exploration
  4. Consent-forward culture, held with care and clarity

The night is confident, warm, and real — not performative.

Just men, rope, and presence.

Bound NYC is held in a members-based space and guided by the values of our community — care, intention, and accountability. While membership is optional, joining the Kink Collective provides benefits such as discounted Sanctuary Sessions, up to 2 free events per month, discounted in-person events, and access to Conscious Conversation, our weekly online room that explores identity, sexuality, and relationships, letting you deepen your connection to this curated masculine-energy container.

WHAT YOU’LL TAKE AWAY

  1. Practical rope knowledge you can apply immediately
  2. Increased confidence in consent, negotiation, and pacing
  3. More connection to your body, your desires, and your boundaries
  4. A deeper sense of belonging in a masculine container rooted in respect
  5. The experience of exploring rope with community — not pressure

Whether you’re new or seasoned, you’ll leave with something solid.

YOUR FACILITATORS

Held by The Kink Collective facilitators, grounded in our philosophy: People Before Kink.

You can expect a space where consent, clarity, and care are prioritized — and where exploration is supported, not pushed.

PRACTICAL DETAILS

Date: Friday, February 6th

Time: 8:00PM – 1AM

Doors Close: 9:00 PM sharp

Location: The Sanctuary of East Harlem | 113 E 125th St. 10035, New York, NY.

Who: Men of all orientations & identities

Snacks & Drinks: Bring something to share; water/tea/coffee provided

Dress Code: Comfortable & confident

Photography: Optional, negotiated, 100% consent-based

Accessibility: One flight of stairs (20 steps); push door firmly on arrival

TICKETS

$30 Member’s Ticket, $40 General Admission, $60 Couples (2 Tickets)

🎟 Get Your Advance Tickets, Here.

Or pay at the door via Cash, Venmo, PayPal, Zelle, or CashApp

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