Kinky Shadow Work Series

Boundaries & Consent: The Shadow of Yes, No & Maybe + Jam!

Event Details

1. 🕗 Workshop: 7:30pm
2. 🕗 Jam: 10:30pm
3. 🕗 Event ends: 12:30am
4. 📍 Location: Union Square NYC (Full address provided in your confirmation email)
5. 🌟 Accessibility: This venue has elevator access

Join us in the fun and enticing worlds of Kink and Tantric practice for consensual adults.

🌀 What to Expect: Come for the workshop and stay for the Jam to practice what you learned and connect with other curious, conscious folks in the lifestyIe.

This is not just a class—it's a ritual space of healing, reclamation, and deep insight. You’ll map your jealousy triggers, explore the unmet needs beneath them, and learn how to listen to your jealousy without becoming overwhelmed by it. Through partner practices, body-based exercises, guided visualizations, and integration tools, you’ll build a personalized toolkit to navigate jealousy with presence, compassion, and power. Whether you’re solo, partnered, or part of a polycule, this experience will support you in transmuting jealousy into a portal for deeper connection—with yourself, your lovers, and your desires. Come ready to move, feel, witness, and evolve.

What You'll Learn:

💜 Identifying shadows that make boundary setting/enforcement difficult

💜 Exercises to honor the protective function of boundaries

💜 The shadow of people pleasing and it’s affect on consent

We are having a 2-part evening of indulgence and learning. Come for the workshop and stay for the Jam to practice what you learned and meet other like-minded folks!

This is a trauma-informed, kink-aware, non-monogamy-affirming space. All genders, orientations, and relationship styles welcome. You do not need to be currently partnered to attend. This workshop involves potentially activating material around jealousy, trauma, and emotional safety. Please come prepared to take care of yourself. You are always welcome to pass, pause, or step away from any activity. A resource corner and support options will be available.

🧰 What to Wear / What to Bring:

1. Comfortable clothes you can move and sit in for extended periods
2. A journal and pen
3. Water bottle and snacks
4. Optional: personal objects for comfort (crystals, pillows, etc.)

Curiosity, compassion, and a willingness to go deep

Exclusive "Jam" After the Workshop

After the main session, join our intimate Jam session, where you’ll have the chance to ask questions, practice the tools you’ve learned, and receive personalized coaching guidance from Danny and Vanessa Panzella-Velez. This is your opportunity to deepen your learning and apply the skills in a supportive and playful space.

About Facilitators

Danny and Vanessa are trauma-informed Psychedelic Integration, intimacy and relationship coaches who specialize in helping couples heal and thrive through sacred connection. With over a decade of experience studying tantra, psychedelic integration, and somatic practices, they bring a unique blend of ancient wisdom and modern science to their teaching.

Vanessa and Danny’s journey from toxic relationship patterns to tantric intimacy has fueled their passion to guide others toward emotional safety and fulfillment. Through intimacy tool like psychedelic therapies, tantra, somatic, kink and pleasure healing Danny and Vanessa offer a compassionate approach rooted in trauma healing and nervous system regulation. Together, they’ve created transformative workshops, coaching programs, and events that inspire couples to embrace vulnerability, passion, and deep connection.

Danny Panzella-Velez

Trauma Informed Psychedelic Integration & Relationship Guide

Https://SovereignLove.NYC

TICKETS

Prices increase as tiers sell out—don’t wait! Bring a friend/partner and save.

🎟️ Workshop & Jam $72

🎟️ Workshop Only $40

LATE ENTRY AND REFUNDS

Refunds must be requested 7 days prior to event - if you can't make it, please gift or sell your ticket to a worthy soul. To protect the space, late arrivals will not be admitted after doors close, and refunds will not be provided.

Important Notice

Pagans Paradise events are intended for educational and entertainment purposes, and attendees participate at their own risk. Some events may involve physical or emotional exploration, and by attending, you agree to take personal responsibility for your well-being. Pagans Paradise upholds Eventbrite's community guidelines, this event is not sex-based, hookup-style, explicit, or pornographic, and all activities within our events are consensual, respectful, and professionally guided.

ABOUT US

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