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Cougars & Cubs: Intentional Age Gap Dating for Women & Men

In this straight dating event, we'll break the night into several parts. Each part will involve group games and 1-1 conversation starters to get the flow going. You won't be sitting all night, nor will you get lost in the corner of the room. This will not be usual speed dating where everyone sits and just rotates from one person to the next. Expect games, deep conversation starters, and to interact with everyone in the room. We curate conversations that are meant to bring about actual connection! The night will end with an open mix and mingling. Prepare to stay later than 9 pm. Folks usually don't end up leaving until around 10 pm.

Ages

  1. Women: 40+
  2. Men: 21-39

Tickets have been divided to ensure we are able to keep the numbers at 50/50 as much as possible. Once a particular ticket type is sold out, that will be made clear!

Bi or Pan Cougars, scroll to the bottom to learn about a special offer.

What can you expect?

  1. The night will be broken into parts that each involve questions and games to help get the flow going. You'll be broken into groups of 2 or more and get to engage in connection or love. The night's intention is to help the entire group get to know one another.
  2. We have plenty of games that will be used to help with matching, along with ice breakers used for the same purpose (matching people). All games will allow for anonymous matching and will encourage playfulness and keep the night fun!
  3. For one game, Cubs, we ask that you bring something that says something about you. The item can be your favorite book, something you collect, an item you bought on your last trip to Thailand, or that poem that 100% speaks to who you are. Whatever it is, let it be something that reveals a bit of who you are. Yes, this will be used for one of our matching rounds.

Dress Code:

We ask that folks dress nicely. This is a subjective word. So to help with that, we ask that you dress to impress. Dress as you would to attend a joy-filled event. Expect style, whether artistic or corporate, dress with intention and care. Pull out the cute top, the nice jeans, the sexy shoes. Come ready to meet your person! Have a question? Ask.

Can I come if I am poly and have a partner?

This event we'll be keeping to those who are monogamous, monogam'ish, or those who DO NOT already have a primary partner. Perhaps you have partners, but if you're still in search of a primary (if that's how you do poly) then you are welcome.

Bi/Pan Cougars

Want to attend this event and the Cougars and Cubs event happening May 16th, 7-9 pm, at the same location? There is a special discounted ticket that gets you in to both events! Get $10 off the Cougars and Cubs ticket price.