Chivalry: An Evening of Pleasure

Femme folk, would you like to be treated like a precious treasure? We’ve got a treat for you!

This night is the chance for amazing, chivalrous people to bond with each other and then lavish the feminine with sweet attention, care and adoration.

REQUIREMENTS

To go to the event, ALL attendees MUST:

1. Must be a member

2. Needs to have taken ALL FOUR core classes: Awesome Boundaries, Sexy Intersections, the Orientation, and The Pleasure Talk., or contact Christine for a vetting (an optional 30 minute online course). Contact us at sexposlosangeles@gmail.com for more info.

Who can attend?

Here are the categories to participate:

1. Receiving Service (Feminine): Women and gender fluid/non-binary femme folk
2. Giving Service (Chivalrous): Chivalrous people across the gender spectrum

Femme folk that receive service, this is a chance to practice the skill of asking for what you want. Your role will be to continually attune to yourself and deepen your ability to recognize and follow your needs and desires. Do you want a foot massage? You can ask for it. If you’re finished with that experience, you would just say, “Thank you, I feel done with that.” Would you like to see a giver in the room slowly undress for you? You can request it! If you change your mind, once again, just say the words.

Expect a delightful, luscious magical evening.

CONSENT ALWAYS

Each attendee is welcome to participate at whatever level feels right for them. Boundaries will be warmly respected. This applies to the chivalrous ones, if you are ever asked to do something that’s not right for you, just be kind and decline. We love and respect your boundaries!

WHAT TO BRING

1. Feminine: bring savory snacks to keep us all energized throughout the night - dips, veggies, nuts, crackers, protein-rich foods, etc.
2. Chivalrous: bring “sumptuous snacks” such as chocolate and berries - foods that you imagine femme folks will find sensual and delicious.
3. A clean towel or sheet

Note: If alcohol is offered, please be sure to partake responsibly. Your boundaries and the consent of everyone at the event is a top priority. Thanks!

WHAT TO WEAR?

1. Feminine: Wear whatever you fancy. If you feel like soft and flowing clothes that brings out your feminine side, go for it. What matters most is that you feel comfortable. If there’s something in your closet that makes you feel beautiful and that’s how you want to feel, try that.
2. Chivalrous: Wear what you feel may be attractive to the feminine. Arrive well-groomed and consider wearing what you might wear on a first date.

For all - Arrive freshly showered. Please no body wash or cologne - some of us have sensitive noses.

CLOTHING ON OR OFF?

All attendees can stay fully dressed at the event and have a wonderful experience. The below guidelines are for those who may prefer less clothing.

1. Feminine: You can undress completely if you choose.
2. Chivalrous: You can undress down to underwear if you are specifically requested to do so, and you consent.

WHAT ACTIVITIES ARE WELCOME?

Conversation, caresses, massage; listening to the music, dancing, laughing. In terms of vibe, sensuality is welcome. Erotic energy is also welcome. The level of activities can stretch to Level “Three Plus.”

HEALTH GUIDELINE AND ADDITIONAL EVENT NOTES

Please skip this event if you’ve been exposed to COVID 19 or have symptoms or feel “off.”

We warmly encourage attendees to take a rapid test on the day of the event.

Cats and dogs have/do live at this private home where the event will be held, and attendees will have to use stairs to access the event.

The event will be "wait-listed" and will allow 20 SPLA members to attend; the hosts will verify your status and allow you in.

HOW TO PREPARE MENTALLY

To make the evening extra special and one-of-a-kind, you’re invited to begin your experience earlier in the day. If you’re able to take some time for yourself on Saturday afternoon, consider it! Slow down a bit, breathe and take good care of yourself. Take a bath, take a walk, enjoy a quieter pace and feel. Or get some exercise to release stress or tension. This can allow you to arrive, relaxed and ready for an amazing experience.

YOUR GUIDES

Christine Moyle and Jean Franzblau

Hi, this is Christine! I am excited to bring together this yummy night! If you are drawn into Chivalrious role, I am here to support you. Please feel free to reach out to me with any questions or if you need suggestions. I have been a member of SPLA for over four years, serve on the board, and am dedicated to creating a safe space to experiment and explore our desires.

Hey there - I’m Jean Franzblau. I love being pampered! I’ve been longing for this event for years and am so happy it’s finally happening! I’ve been in SPLA for about ten years. In my day-to-day life, I’m an Intimacy Professional for TV, Film and Theatre and the Founder of Cuddle Sanctuary. You can find me at JeanFranzblau.com.