Cirque du Kink — Nocturnal Play Party
- Hosted by Nocturnal Events
- San Jose, CA -
- 68 people on the list-
Get ready for Cirque du Kink — where circus wonders collide with kinky delights! Step into a world of circus-inspired fantasies, where you can crack your whips and tame feral beasts, show off your rope and aerial skills, share laughter or screams with the clowns... The only limit is your imagination — and, your partner’s boundaries, of course!
Date: 20 Sep 2024 (Friday)
Time: 8:30 pm - 1:30 am
Location: Downtown San Jose
You will receive the address the day before the event via email
Dresscode: Dress up as a member of the circus — whether a performer, a clown, a beast... or an audience here to be entertained.
Dress Code is not mandatory
If you have coulrophobia, please consider skipping this party, as many attendees may be dressed as clowns.
Schedule & Activities
Details coming soon...
Aerialist Training Station
Prepare yourself for a 2-Point dynamic suspension, where you may practice to flip, flop, and pose with the support of a hip harness.
Body Art station
Paint a smile on everyone, or let the degradation mark your skin.
Training of the Ferrals
Impact & Pet Play House Top(s)
Circus Show Time
Interactive circus show
Afterhour Petting Zoo
Gentle pets, tender touches, and playtime await… but watch out for a bite!
🎟️ Get your tickets here
- Paid what you can — Accessibility Ticket: USD 25
- Early Registration: USD 45
- General Admission: USD 65
- Benefactor Ticket 🥺💕🙌 : USD 85
Why do we have a sliding scale for our tickets?
While we want to make sure our ticket is affordable to the general public, we wish to cover our expenses as well as be able to expand & host different types of kink events.
Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. Your support is appreciated and will help us keep running events! 🙌🏻
Registration closes at noon on 20 Sep 2024
The Venue
Play Space
An open play space to fit all of your passionate & kinky scenes! Part of the space is designated for Shibari/rope bondage scenes. We will have numerous hard points as well as a velvet mat for floorwork.
Social Area
Want to catch up with your friends while enjoying some snacks? This is where you should hang out 💬
Cuddle Puddle
A space dedicated to cuddles, huggles, and aftercare 🧸
What should I bring?
Your kinky self and your toy/rope bag 💜 Remember to pack for you/your bottom's aftercare needs. Bring your stuffies/blankie to make yourself comfy! We will have snacks, drinks, and space to cuddle.
General Rules
Any violation of the rules might result in a hard ban from our future events. We might also share the incident report with other kink groups, especially in case of severe consent violations.
DM & Hosts (on duty) will be wearing a bright neon green harnesses.
1. Consent matters.
Ask for explicit consent before engaging in any activities with others. Always ask before touching, that goes for people and their belongings.
Only an enthusiastic YES is a yes. If the other person seems hesitant or doubtful, please take that as a “No.” and don’t ask again. You may offer future opportunities for them to reach out to you if they do change their mind. The key is: Let them come to you after the initial "No"
It is also important to clearly communicate the potential risk of the play to the best of your ability.
2. Inclusivity is vital.
There is zero tolerance for hate speech. Help create a safe space for everyone, regardless of their role, gender, ethnicity, orientation, religion, experience, or skill level.
3. Respect the venue.
Do not vandalize or go to closed-off areas.
Do not share details or the location of the venue with non-attendees. If someone approaches you and asks for the address, point them to @Nocturnal_Event or email hello@madebymooooo.com
4. Dress vanilla outside of the event area.
Be discreet when outside the event space to avoid drawing unnecessary attention to the venue/event. If you wish to step outside, please at least wear a big coat over your kink wear.
For your convenience, a changing and storage room is available, where you can fully transform into your kinky, authentic self ✨
5. Photo, video, and recordings are not allowed. If you want your photo taken by our House Photographer, wear a yellow wristband.
6. Play responsibly.
7. No smoking / vaping
8. No Glitter.
9. The DMs & Hosts are here to help, but not here to parent you.
If someone is making you uncomfortable, go to the DMs, or ask your friend to accompany you to do so. We are here to help.
While we try our best to create a safe space, we can not police everything. Please use your own judgment when vouching play partners, ask around for references, ask a lot of questions, and trust your gut if anything feels off.
Apply critical thinking. Plan for a “buddy system”. Negotiate before the party instead of doing pick-up play.
10. If you see something, say something (to the DMs/Hosts)
We need your help to create a safe space for everyone. If you notice something that doesn't seem quite right, speak up. Or please tell our DMs or the Hosts.
In case of unfortunate events or incident reports, please DM talk to us on Fetlife @Nocturnal_Events, or e-mail hello@madebymooooo.com
11. If you’re unsure if it’s permitted and the rules don’t mention it, ask a DM/host.
We can’t cover every possible kink and situation. If there’s any gray area, please ask us for permission before doing it, as you would do for negotiating with a new play partner.
Play Space
12. House Safeword is “SAFEWORD”
13. No phone allowed in the Play Space.
14. Keep the space clean.
If you are using the furniture or mats, make sure to wipe them with cleaning spray before AND after your scenes. We also provide disposable sheets and waterproof pads.
15. Make sure to clean up after your scene.
16. Check for wristband before starting conversation.
17. Do not interrupt other’s scene.
If you see something that you suspect is unsafe, talk to a DM or a Host.
18. If you are not playing, stay outside of the play zones (marked by white tape)
If you are not in a scene, or your scene isn’t starting within 15 mins, please don’t hoard the play stations.
19. You may move the furniture within the play zone.
Ask a DM for help if you needed.
20. Do not lock shackles or tie people to furniture.
21. We have a hard ban on breath play, fire play, golden shower/scat play, and any unapproved messy play.
While a big flame is not allowed, we do allow lit candles for wax play. When in doubt, ask a DM or a Host.
Impact Play
22. Do not aim to draw blood, as blood play is not allowed.
23. If you are planning to use single tails or other long, whippy toys, please clear the area before the scene. Notify the DMs so they keep people away.
Shibari / Rope Bondage
24. Only suspend from designated hard points.
Bring your own (graded) suspension gear.
There will be some puzzle mats provided for your shibari/rope bondage scenes. You can also bring your own mats/blankets.
Wrestling / Rough Body Play
25. Take off your jewelry. Especially if they were sharp.
26. Everyone must stay on their knees or lower at all times.
27. Lay down puzzle mats or other soft padding for your scene.
We are providing some puzzle mats for your scenes. You can also bring your own mats/blankets. Be mindful of where you set up, and avoid the social area and doorway as people might be walking through a lot. Notify the DMs so they know to keep people away.
Wax Play
28. You may use a pouring pot or a maximum of two lit candles for each scene.
Please cover the floor and furniture with puzzle mats & disposable sheets to prevent mess.. Be aware of splashing wax.
Group Scene
29. Make sure to negotiate clearly who is involved BEFORE the scene.
30. Do not ask to join an on-going group scene. If they want you to join in, they will invite you.
31. Watch from a distance (outside of the play zone).
Sexual Play
32. Place as many absorbent pads as you need under the bottom, your used toys, and anywhere body fluids might land. NO ONE wants to touch or step on your body fluid.
33. Do NOT sit or lie on soft furniture with your naked ass or genitals. Always sit/lie an absorbent pad. If you cause a mess or stain the carpet or soft furniture, you will be charged $500 cleaning fee.
34. Do NOT masturbate toward others or near someone else’s scene without prior negotiation.
35. Please clean your rectum at home before anal play.
Sharp & Blood Play
36. Set up your station with plastic sheet(s) and absorbent pad(s). Make sure the ground/carpet is fully covered as well. If you cause a mess or stain the carpet or soft furniture, you will be charged $500 cleaning fee.
37. Dispose of all used needles and other disposable sharps in the sharps container(s).
38. Do not spank, strike, or apply any impact to areas where needles are inserted or where bleeding is present. Avoid any actions that could cause blood to splatter into the air.
39. Participants should disclose any relevant health conditions (e.g., bloodborne diseases, clotting disorders, or other medical issues) that could affect the safety or risk level of sharps play.
Other Play
You can enjoy exploring most types of power exchange / BDSM / Fetish play as long as everyone involved consents and is risk-aware.
We have a hard ban on breath play, fire play, golden shower/scat play, and any unapproved messy play.
If you are not sure we allow the type of kink you want to explore at our events, or you need special accommodation/set up for your scene, please contact the Host @Nocturnal_Events BEFORE the event.
Covid & Health Policy
1. Vaccination is a must. You are considered fully vaccinated two weeks or more after receiving the final dose in a two-dose series (Pfizer-BioNTech or Moderna) or two weeks or more after receiving a single-dose vaccine authorized by the World Health Organization.
2. Please wear a mask upon arrival. You can take them off after we check your Covid Test result. In the event, mask is recommended, especially in the social area, but not required.
- Mask Options: We will have surgical masks and some N95 masks available. Please ask our volunteers at the check-in station if you need them.
3. Take a home test (antigen rapid test) on the day of the party. During check-in, you will have to show a photo of your test result, with the date, time & your preferred name written on/near the test card. Forgot Your Home Covid Test? Limited Covid Tests are available for purchase at $10 each.
4. Use our hand sanitizers! They are available at cleaning supply stations around the play space, near the food in the social area, and at the waiver table during check-in.
5. If you feel sick, stay home. We will gladly give you a full refund OR a future party credit.
When in doubt, email Hello@MadebyMooooo.com
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