Code of Eros — Protocol Themed Play Party

A Protocol Themed Party presented by @WileyElote & @Nocturnal_Events

Dear Guests, you are cordially invited to join us for an evening brimming with delights and enchanting moments. You may bring your own servant, or demand services from our devoted attendees: They shall serve with grace, respect, and impeccable posture; Should their conduct falter, any deviation shall be met with discipline, either by your hand or that of our Head Servants.

Are you looking to serve instead? Check out our visual Guide to Navigating The Protocol Themed Party here or the "Pick your role!" section below!

Date: 23 May 2025 (Friday)

Time: 8 pm - 1 am

Location: Stopgap, A Kink Venue in San Francisco

You will receive the address in your confirmation email

🎟️ Get your tickets here

7:30pm: Doors open

8:00pm: Play space opens

8:30pm - 10pm: Positions Training (activity details coming soon)

10pm - 11:30pm: Human Furniture Social (activity details coming soon)

12:00am: Doors close

1:00am: Party ends

Registration

1. Paid what you can — Accessibility Ticket: USD 25
2. Early Bird Ticket: USD 45
3. General Registration: USD 65
4. Benefactor / Last Chance Ticket: USD 85

Registration closes at noon on 23 May 2025

Why do we have a sliding scale for our tickets?

While we want to make sure our ticket is affordable to the general public, we wish to cover our expenses as well as be able to expand & host different types of kink events. Please pay at the level you can comfortably afford. Your support is appreciated and will help us keep running events! 🙌🏻

Pick Your Role!

You may attend the event as one (or more) of the following role:

The Guest

You are here to be served, entertained, and to enjoy an evening filled with delightful pain, pleasure, and play. Wear a green glow stick on your wrist if you are open to being approached by our communal servants.

Private Servants (wearing red glow stick around the neck)

You are here only to serve your person(s).

Communal Servants (wearing yellow glow stick around their neck)

You are here to serve other Guests by providing drinks / food, and acting as human furniture. You will follow 3 rules and learn 3 positions as part of your service.

Free Use Servants (wearing green glow stick around the neck)

You are here to serve other Guests by providing services mentioned above, AND are open to being inspected, spanked, and groped on certain body parts. You will follow 5 rules and learn 5 positions as part of your service.

This will replace our regular social wristband/glowstick system.

How does this work?

Please keep in mind that this is all part of role-playing. All interactions must be negotiated and with informed consent.

While all these are happening, feel free to carry on your kinky play in the play space ❤️‍🔥 There's no requirement to participate in the theme to fully savor the party.

Before the party...

1. Thoroughly review the rules and assess your risk profile before choosing your roles. While we will have DMs present to help monitor the scenes, we cannot guarantee that everyone will be respectful.
2. Check out our visual Guide to Navigating The Protocol Themed Party here
3. Upon check-in, choose your role by wearing a glow stick on your neck (servant) or your wrist (Guest). You can always change your mind later. You can remove the glow sticks if you want to take a break / simply enjoy the party.
4. Check out our activities and sign up for any that interest you.
5. Review the rules and positions one more time before engaging with other Guests or communal servants.
6. Enjoy serving or being served!

The Venue

1. Play Space
2. An open play space to fit all of your passionate & kinky scenes! Part of the space is designated for Shibari/rope bondage scenes. We will have numerous hard points as well as a velvet mat for floorwork.
3. Social Area
4. Want to catch up with your friends while enjoying some snacks? This is where you should hang out 💬
5. Cuddle Puddle
6. A room dedicated to cuddles, huggles, and aftercare 🧸

What should I bring?

Your kinky self and your toy/rope bag 💜 Remember to pack for you/your bottom's aftercare needs. Bring your stuffies/blankie to make yourself comfy! We will have snacks, drinks, and space to cuddle.

General Rules

Any violation of the rules might result in a hard ban from our future events. We might also share the incident report with other kink groups, especially in case of severe consent violations.

DM & Hosts (on duty) will be wearing bright neon green harnesses.

1. Consent matters.

Ask for explicit consent before engaging in any activities with others. Always ask before touching, that goes for people and their belongings.

Only an enthusiastic YES is a yes. If the other person seems hesitant or doubtful, please take that as a “No.” and don’t ask again. You may offer future opportunities for them to reach out to you if they do change their mind. The key is: Let them come to you after the initial "No"

It is also important to clearly communicate the potential risk of the play to the best of your ability.

2. There is zero tolerance for hate speech. Help create a safe space for everyone, regardless of their role, gender, ethnicity, orientation, religion, experience, or skill level.

3. Respect the venue.

Do not vandalize or go to closed-off areas.

Do not share details or the location of the venue with non-attendees. If someone approaches you and asks for the address, point them to @Nocturnal_Event or email hello@madebymooooo.com

4. Dress street legal outside of the venue

You may transform into your kinky authentic self inside ✨

5. Photo, video, and recordings are not allowed.

6. Please do not use languages such as "slave" "human cattle" or other any honorifics for someone you are not in a dynamic with.

7.Play responsibly. This is a dry event.

We may ask you to leave if you show up with obvious signs of being under influence.

8. No smoking / vaping indoor

9. No Glitter.

10 .The DMs & Hosts are here to help, but not here to parent you.

If someone is making you uncomfortable, go to the DMs, or ask your friend to accompany you to do so. We are here to help.

While we try our best to create a safe space, we can not police everything. Please use your own judgment when vouching play partners, ask around for references, ask a lot of questions, and trust your gut if anything feels off.

Apply critical thinking. Plan for a “buddy system”. Negotiate before the party instead of doing pick-up play.

11. If you see something, say something (to the DMs/Hosts)

We need your help to create a safe space for everyone. If you notice something that doesn't seem quite right, speak up. Or please tell our DMs or the Hosts.

In case of unfortunate events or incident reports, please DM talk to us on Fetlife @Nocturnal_Events, or e-mail hello@madebymooooo.com

12. If you’re unsure if it’s permitted and the rules don’t mention it, ask a DM/host.

We can’t cover every possible kink and situation. If there’s any gray area, please ask us for permission before doing it, as you would do for negotiating with a new play partner.

Play Space

13. House Safeword is “SAFEWORD”

14. No phone allowed in the Play Space.

15. Keep the space clean.

If you are using the furniture or mats, make sure to wipe them with cleaning spray before AND after your scenes. We also provide disposable sheets and waterproof pads.

16. Make sure to clean up after your scene.

17 .Do not interrupt others’ scenes.

If you see something that you suspect is unsafe, talk to a DM or a Host.

18. If you are not playing, stay outside of the play zones.

If you are not in a scene, or your scene isn’t starting within 15 mins, please don’t hoard the play stations.

19. You may move the furniture within the play zone.

Ask a DM for help if needed.

20. Do not lock shackles or tie people to furniture.

21. We do NOT allow open frame, breath play, scat play, food play and/or any play that might make a mess.

22. Edge play/dynamic such as race play and dark age play are not allowed.

23. If you are planning a CNC scene, please notify our DMs so we can response promptly to any potential triggers.

24. Golden showers are only allowed in the shower, and regular showers are required after the golden one before you leave the bathroom.

Covid & Health Policy

1. Vaccination is a must. You are considered fully vaccinated two weeks or more after receiving the final dose in a two-dose series (Pfizer-BioNTech or Moderna) or two weeks or more after receiving a single-dose vaccine authorized by the World Health Organization.
2. Please wear a mask upon arrival. You can take them off after we check your Covid Test result. In the event, mask is recommended, especially in the social area, but not required.
3. Mask Options: We will have surgical masks and limited N95 masks available. Please ask our volunteers at the check-in station if you need them.
4. Take a home test (antigen rapid test) on the day of the party. During check-in, you will have to show a photo of your test result, with the date, time & your preferred name written on/near the test card. Forgot Your Home Covid Test? Limited Covid Tests are available for purchase at $10 each.
5. Use our hand sanitizers! They are available at cleaning supply stations around the play space, near the food in the social area, and at the waiver table during check-in.
6. If you feel sick, stay home. We will gladly give you a full refund OR a future party credit.

When in doubt, email Hello@MadebyMooooo.com

Produced by Made by Mooooo LLC. in collaboration with @WileyElote