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[FREE] Collaborative Conflict: Transformative Approaches to Harm, Healing, and Accountability

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CONSENT AT PLURA:

This workshop is part of the Consent Skillz education program. Plura is partnering with key consent and DEI educators to grow our community knowledge on how to respectfully engage on this platform.

This workshop is free to attend. You will find the recording of this workshop, along with the recordings of all past Plura consent workshops in our Consent Hub [https://heyplura.com/consent]

WORKSHOP INFO

Humans are messy creatures, and relationships among us can become even messier still. We make mistakes, act on poor judgment, fall into damaging habits, and cause harms of various shapes and sizes. At the same time, we are capable of learning, healing, and growth. In times of conflict—even severe conflict—how do we effectively balance these tendencies and capacities while recognizing the humanity of all involved? How do we retain boundaries, self-respect, and safety while also maintaining space for new habits, new understandings, and genuine healing and restoration? How do we prevent future harms without falling into seductive but often reductive narratives of “good guys” versus “bad guys”?

In this workshop, we’ll look at transformative approaches to justice and explore how the principles and practices found within can be applied in the context of our interpersonal and especially intimate relationships. What would it look like to not avoid or erase conflict, but instead to reshape conflict into a form of collaboration? Is this even possible in more painful or severe situations, and what like-minded alternatives are there for when collaborative healing and restoration seem impossible? We’ll address all this and more as we explore ways to reframe and perhaps even rehabilitate our relationship to conflict, care, and accountability.

NOTAFLOF: You can access discounted tickets through our NOTAFLOF program. Get a free Plura+ membership at https://heyplura.com/notaflof and unlock $12 tickets.

Note: This class will be recorded and available for 30 days after the event for all ticket holders.

ABOUT LEY DAVID ELLIETTE CRAY

Ley David Elliette Cray, PhD (she/they) is an author, activist, coach, consultant, and educator specializing in gender, sexuality, relationship diversity, and neurodiversity. She is the founder of Transentience Coaching and currently serves as GSRD Content Specialist for the Sexual Health Alliance, where she also co-facilitates the Kink-Informed Certification Program with Midori. You can read more about her work at http://www.transentiencecoaching.com.