Con·ver·gence (noun):

the moment when different energies meet and something new, warm, and unmistakably alive forms between them.

Convergence is part of The Sanctuary Sessions — our monthly BDSM gathering offering an unhurried, intimate space for intentional play that’s deeply personal, connected, and supported by a shared energy of trust and surrender

This is NOT a chaotic and loud dungeon party or an anonymous free-for-all.

Convergence is a curated space where connection comes first, and play unfolds naturally from there.

THE VIBE

All of The Sanctuary Sessions including Convergence were designed to feel warm, intimate, and quietly seductive — the kind of space where you can breathe a little deeper and settle into yourself.

1. Minimal + melodic house and techno sets a steady, sensual pulse throughout the night
2. Soft, dim lighting keeps everything warm and flattering
3. A comfortable lounge zone for community, conversation, and gentle aftercare
4. Open-plan layout with exposed brick keeps the energy communal and inviting

The vibe is slow, intentional, and comfortable — never rushed, never overwhelming

It’s the kind of environment where you can connect easily, explore gently, and feel held by the room.

WHAT TO EXPECT

Guided Connection (8–9 PM)

1. We ease into the night with light, intentional prompts that make meeting people feel natural and relaxed. It’s warm, it’s simple, and it sets the tone for everything that follows.

Opening Circle (9 PM)

1. A brief gathering to ground, introduce ourselves, and name our intentions.

Play Stations (9:30 PM–1 AM)

1. Five curated stations inviting exploration at your own pace.
2. Watch, learn, ask questions, connect, or play — always with consent and clarity.
3. The vibe is intimate rather than intense: open, warm, and steady.

WHY PEOPLE LOVE CONVERGENCE

1. It’s sexy without pressure
2. Social without small talk
3. Structured without feeling rigid
4. Playful without being performative
5. Built for people who value comfort, connection, and conscious kink

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATORS

Led by Joshua & Cat, The Kink Collective anchors each of The Sanctuary Session’s hold our guiding philosophy: People Before Kink.

We hold the container so you can feel safe, grounded, and free to explore in ways that feel right for you.

EVENT DETAILS

📅 Friday, January 9th

⏰ 8 PM – 1 AM

📍 The Sanctuary of East Harlem

1. 113 E 125th St, 10035
2. The black door next to the pizza place
3. (One flight of stairs; not wheelchair accessible.)
4. Please push the door open HARD upon arrival.

🔞 18+

1. A shareable snack or drink is always welcome.
2. Wear what makes you feel comfortable and confident.
3. Photos only with explicit consent.

TICKETS

$20 Members

$30 General Admission

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