CONVERGENCE: A Night of Intimate BDSM in NYC's Sexiest Dungeon

CONVERGENCE

An intimate night of erotic connection, curiosity and conscious play

Con·ver·gence (noun):

the moment when different energies meet and something new, warm, and unmistakably alive forms between them.

Convergence is part of The Sanctuary Sessions — our monthly BDSM gathering offering an unhurried, intimate space for intentional play that’s deeply personal, connected, and supported by a shared energy of trust and surrender

This is NOT a chaotic and loud dungeon party or an anonymous free-for-all.

Convergence is a curated space where connection comes first, and play unfolds naturally from there.

THE VIBE

All of The Sanctuary Sessions including Convergence were designed to feel warm, intimate, and quietly seductive — the kind of space where you can breathe a little deeper and settle into yourself.

1. Minimal + melodic house and techno sets a steady, sensual pulse throughout the night
2. Soft, dim lighting keeps everything warm and flattering
3. A comfortable lounge zone for community, conversation, and gentle aftercare
4. Open-plan layout with exposed brick keeps the energy communal and inviting

The vibe is slow, intentional, and comfortable — never rushed, never overwhelming

It’s the kind of environment where you can connect easily, explore gently, and feel held by the room.

Convergence takes place in a members-based space, shaped by the values and culture of our community — care, intention, and accountability. Membership isn’t required to attend, but joining the Kink Collective allows you to engage more fully with our events with access to discounted Sanctuary Sessions and free participation in our weekly online room, Conscious Conversations, helping you deepen your connection with yourself and our community.

WHAT TO EXPECT

Guided Connection (8–9 PM)

1. We ease into the night with light, intentional prompts that make meeting people feel natural and relaxed. It’s warm, it’s simple, and it sets the tone for everything that follows.
2. All attendees must arrive before 9PM in order to join this event.

Opening Circle/Doors Close (9 PM)

1. A brief gathering to ground, introduce ourselves, and name our intentions.

Play Stations (9:30 PM–1 AM)

1. Five curated stations inviting exploration at your own pace.
2. Watch, learn, ask questions, connect, or play — always with consent and clarity.
3. The vibe is intimate rather than intense: open, warm, and steady.

WHY PEOPLE LOVE CONVERGENCE

1. It’s sexy without pressure
2. Social without small talk
3. Structured without feeling rigid
4. Playful without being performative
5. Built for people who value comfort, connection, and conscious kink

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATORS

Led by Joshua & Cat, The Kink Collective anchors each of The Sanctuary Session’s hold our guiding philosophy: People Before Kink. We hold the container so you can feel safe, grounded, and free to explore in ways that feel right for you.

EVENT DETAILS

📅 Friday, February 13th

⏰ 8 PM – 1 AM -> Doors Close at 9PM

📍 The Sanctuary of East Harlem

1. 113 E 125th St, 10035
2. The black door next to the pizza place
3. (One flight of stairs; not wheelchair accessible.)
4. Please push the door open HARD upon arrival.

🔞 18+

1. Bring a snack or drink to share.
2. Wear what makes you feel comfortable and confident.
3. Photos only with explicit consent.

TICKETS

$40 Members

$50 General Admission

$80 Couples

(Cash, Venmo, Zelle, CashApp, PayPal)

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Venue

Our location and how you can get here

Address

113 E 125th St 2nd floor

Push door hard and come to the top of the stairs, New York, New York - 10035

United States

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