Couples Tantric Massage 3-Day Staycation Retreat

Join us from the privacy of your bedroom to learn the art of tantric massage and all of the skills required to hold deep sexual space.

Friday, September 26; Saturday, September 27; & Sunday, September 28

10 am - 9:00 pm PT* each day

*Click here to convert to your time zone: https://dateful.com/time-zone-converter

Put it on the calendar...take the days off work...set up the kids, the pets, and all your other responsibilities. Because this is your time to relax, connect, and return to pleasure with yourself and your partner during our online 3-day staycation retreat.

Dive into the world of tantric massage from the comfort of your own home. This retreat is designed to deepen your bond, enhance intimacy, and explore new ways to connect on physical, emotional, and sexual levels. Join us for a transformative experience that will leave you feeling more connected and in tune with each other than ever before. Don't miss out on this opportunity to take your relationship and sex life to the next level!

YOU WANT TO:

1. Experience a deep sexual and spiritual connection
2. Be an amazing and confident lover
3. Safely surrender during sexual intimacy
4. Feel absolutely NO PRESSURE to perform
5. Give your partner deep pleasure and multiple orgasms
6. Know bliss and ecstasy
7. Explore sacred sexuality

THIS STAYCATION RETREAT IS FOR:

1. Committed couples at any stage who want to go deeper in their mental, emotional, sexual, and spiritual connection with themselves and with one another
2. Queer and trans folk who want to experience sacred sexuality outside heteronormative, binary paradigms of "sacred masculinity" and "sacred femininity" with gender neutral terms and expansive, inclusive language
3. White people and non-Indian-subcontinent folk who want to explore a tradition within more modern contexts (some versions have always been meant as a practice within modern life) with appreciation instead of appropriation
4. People who have sexual trauma history, have grown up in religion, or exist in our rape culture-enabling society who want to learn a trauma-informed approach to tantric massage and practice

TRAUMA INFORMED. This means we go slow and at the pace of your body. By learning and recognizing triggers as well as how to resource, anchor, and ground on your own and with your partner, we build safety, trust, and offer opportunities to heal.

GENDER NEUTRAL & INCLUSIVE. This means you won't hear anything about "divine masculine" and "divine feminine" or binary genders. We honor people's pronouns and expression as well as the body parts we're born with, surgically embrace, and energetically embody.

INTERSECTIONAL. This means we acknowledge the systems of suppression that affect our sex, love, and relationships as well as our identity. We work with the myths, violence, and trauma of the culture we've been born into that don't represent our worthiness.

PLEASE SHARE YOUR ACCESS NEEDS. This means we honor neurodiverse, chronically ill, hard of hearing folk, and those with visible and invisible disabilities. We make captions available and strive to make the space accessible and inclusive by being online and with long breaks.

TO GET THERE, THIS EXPERIENCE INCLUDES:

1. A 3-day staycation experience in the comfort of your own home so your skills don't stay in some tropical hideway...they're living and breathing in your bedroom
2. Guided videos and guided audios for ongoing learning and exploration after you've completed the retreat so you don't have to remember everything
3. Simple, step-by-step guidance for Sacred Setup & Preparation to make your space feel special so you can transform ordinary into extraordinary every week on your own
4. The accessible and easy to understand 3-3-3 Tantra Intro for a foundation in tantric philosophies, principles, and practices so you can begin to feel grounded in what tantra is about before practicing tantra
5. My Playful Holding Space Training for learning how to hold mental and emotional space for your partner before exploring physical and sexual space-holding with the Tantric Massage Setup & Positioning
6. Learning and sensitizing to the strong reactions of stress cycles: Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn and how to feel them from within your own body and track to see if they're happening in your partner's along with a Sexual Grounding Practice to return to any time the person who is receiving tantric massage seems to be having a strong reaction
7. Periodic reminders to check in with your Turn On Signaling System for sensitizing to your turn-on changing and learning what to do if you want to slow things down or speed things up so the experience isn't over prematurely or end with disappointment
8. Naming what feels good through a Sensational Presence Practice and working with Four Sexual Feedback Questions for more pleasure without getting defensive or walling off inside
9. To invite blood flow to get turned on more, get hard and stay hard, you'll learn the External Pelvis Dearmoring Process for tightness and tension in the body when you're offering and receiving to release what's holding you back from experiencing more and deeper pleasure as well as Loving & Caring Genital Touch
10. Inviting pleasure in the body with different External Genital Strokes and Penetrating Pleasure Guidance for vaginal g-spot, cervical, a-spot, and p-spot orgasms as well as prostate massage and anal exploration

AND SO MUCH MORE....

PRICE OPTIONS:

1. $899 regular price or 3 payments of $299
2. $799 discounted price or 3 payments of $267 through September 12
3. $699 early price or 3 payments of $233 through August 8

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:

Daniela (she/they) is a trauma-informed, certified Tantric Sex Coach as well as a Sex & Intimacy Coach for couples and individuals.

Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports people to experience more sex and deeper connection with themselves and with their partner(s) without pushing, forcing, avoiding, or performing.

With over twenty-four years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and wellness spaces, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma resolution, and modern psychology and inspired by ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.

Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.

She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Ohlone land that’s currently known as San Jose, California in the United States.

For her, nothing is more important than connection.

Email: daniela@danielastevens.com

Website: DanielaStevens.com

Social Media: @danielastevensnow