Couples Tantric Massage Hybrid Training

Experience freedom in your body and gain next level sex skills with two days in person and three private sessions online from your bedroom in this dressed rehearsal.

Saturday, February 14 from 12:30 - 5:00 pm & Sunday, February 15 from 12:30 - 5:00 pm in Aptos, California (near Santa Cruz) plus three 2-hour online sessions with just your partner and you

No more avoiding intimacy.

No more insecurities around sex.

Learn the art of tantric massage and alllllll of the skills required to SAFELY SURRENDER and experience PRESSURE-FREE PLEASURE

1. Without flying half way across the world
2. Without getting naked in front of strangers
3. Without the toxic binary of “divine feminine” and “divine masculine

SAY YES and learn how to hold and be held in deep, healing, pleasurable sexual space with two in-person classes AND three private online sessions

YOU WANT TO:

1. Experience a deep sexual and spiritual connection
2. Be an amazing and confident lover
3. Safely surrender during sexual intimacy
4. Feel absolutely NO PRESSURE to perform
5. Give your partner deep pleasure and multiple orgasms
6. Know bliss and ecstasy
7. Explore sacred sexuality

Humans are sensitive to energy, so learn how to confidently hold space for yourself and your partner, and watch your sex life transform.

THIS HYBRID 16-HOUR TRAINING IS FOR:

1. Committed couples at any stage who want to go deeper in their mental, emotional, sexual, and spiritual connection with themselves and with one another
2. Queer and trans folk who want to experience sacred sexuality outside heteronormative, binary paradigms of "sacred masculinity" and "sacred femininity" with gender neutral terms and expansive, inclusive language
3. White people and non-Indian-subcontinent folk who want to explore a tradition within more modern contexts (some versions have always been meant as a practice within modern life) with appreciation instead of appropriation
4. People who have sexual trauma history, have grown up in religion, or exist in our rape culture-enabling society who want to learn a trauma-informed approach to tantric massage and practice

TRAUMA INFORMED. This means we go slow and at the pace of your body. By learning and recognizing triggers as well as how to resource, anchor, and ground on your own and with your partner, we build safety, trust, and offer opportunities to heal.

GENDER NEUTRAL & INCLUSIVE. This means you won't hear anything about "divine masculine" and "divine feminine" or binary genders. We honor people's pronouns and expression as well as the body parts we're born with, surgically embrace, and energetically embody.

INTERSECTIONAL. This means we acknowledge the systems of suppression that affect our sex, love, and relationships as well as our identity. We work with the myths, violence, and trauma of the culture we've been born into that don't represent our worthiness.

PLEASE SHARE YOUR ACCESS NEEDS. This means we honor neurodiverse, chronically ill, hard of hearing folk, and those with visible and invisible disabilities. We strive to make the in person and online space accessible and inclusive to your needs.

TO GET THERE, THIS EXPERIENCE INCLUDES:

1. An in-person and at home training so you get the energy of the group AND so your skills don't stay in some tropical hideway...they're living and breathing in your bedroom
2. Guided videos and guided audios for ongoing learning and exploration after you've completed the training so you don't have to remember everything
3. Simple, step-by-step guidance for Sacred Setup & Preparation to make your space feel special so you can transform ordinary into extraordinary every week on your own
4. The accessible and easy to understand 3-3-3 Tantra Intro for a foundation in tantric philosophies, principles, and practices so you can begin to feel grounded in what tantra is about before practicing tantra
5. My Playful Holding Space Training for learning how to hold mental and emotional space for your partner before exploring physical and sexual space-holding with the Tantric Massage Setup & Positioning
6. Learning and sensitizing to the strong reactions of stress cycles: Fight, flight, freeze, and fawn and how to feel them from within your own body and track to see if they're happening in your partner's along with a Sexual Grounding Practice to return to any time the person who is receiving tantric massage seems to be having a strong reaction
7. Periodic reminders to check in with your Turn On Signaling System for sensitizing to your turn-on changing and learning what to do if you want to slow things down or speed things up so the experience isn't over prematurely or end with disappointment
8. Naming what feels good through a Sensational Presence Practice and working with Four Sexual Feedback Questions for more pleasure without getting defensive or walling off inside
9. To invite blood flow to get turned on more, get hard and stay hard, you'll learn the External Pelvis Dearmoring Process for tightness and tension in the body when you're offering and receiving to release what's holding you back from experiencing more and deeper pleasure as well as Loving & Caring Genital Touch
10. Inviting pleasure in the body with different External Genital Strokes and Penetrating Pleasure Guidance for vaginal g-spot, cervical, a-spot, and p-spot orgasms as well as prostate massage and anal exploration

AND SO MUCH MORE....

TESTIMONIALS:

“Daniela is an amazing Sex & Intimacy Coach who really hears her clients and not only meets them where they are, but shows them how to reach new destinations that they didn't even know existed. We loved the massage techniques she walked us through and the fact that we could jump off the escalator at any time. She was very attentive and adjusted to our needs every time we met, which allowed us to feel absolutely comfortable and supported throughout our whole journey.”

-MR

“The Couples Tantric Massage Training opened new possibilities for our connection and was great quality time with my wife. Before working with Daniela, when my wife touched me I felt pressured to have sex and perform. Now we agree that touch does not come with expectations. This has already brought us so much joy and made possible beautiful moments that would not happen otherwise.”

-A. R.

SAY YES TO DEEP DEEP CONNECTION STARTING WITH YOUR Couples Tantric Massage Hybrid Training!

PRICE OPTIONS:

1. $2,080 regular price or 5 payments of $416
2. $1,999 discounted price or 5 payments of $400 through February 7
3. $1,917 early price or 5 payments of $383 through January 31

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATOR:

Daniela (she/they) is a trauma-informed, certified Tantric Sex Coach, though she thinks it's more accurate to describe her as a Sacred Sexuality Coach inspired by tantric and taoist practices. Daniela is also a Sex & Intimacy Coach for couples and individuals.

She started learning mindset and practices inspired by tantra and taoism in 2014 through Layla Martin, a white American woman, who was taught by Ma Ananda Sarita, a white English woman who for 17 years trained directly with Osho, an Indian guru. Her tantric practice is also informed by others like Lama Rod Owens, a Black queer Southern man formally trained in the Tibetan Buddhist and Tantric Buddhist lineage.

Named one of the ten best Sex and Intimacy Coaches of 2023 by DatingAdvice.com, she supports people to experience more sex and deeper connection with themselves and with their partner(s) without pushing, forcing, avoiding, or performing.

With over twenty-four years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and wellness spaces, she curates exercises and practices steeped in somatic attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma resolution, and modern psychology and inspired by ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.

Daniela is a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three.

She lives and works as an uninvited guest on occupied Ohlone land that’s currently known as San Jose, California in the United States.

For her, nothing is more important than connection.

Email: daniela@danielastevens.com

Website: DanielaStevens.com

Social Media: @danielastevensnow