Cuddles and Movies: CODA

Couch cuddles? Check. Movie? Check!

We’ll share a potluck dinner and socializing from 5:30 pm until 7:00 pm, then the movie begins. There will be a short break midway through for stretching, restroom visits, and cuddle shuffles. No worries if you're running late! Just catch us for the movie or the chat afterward.

I’ll share the exact address closer to the event.

The heart of this gathering is consensual, platonic cuddling—with room for light, consensual touch if both people are comfortable.

1. Always ask before touching or cuddling.
2. Always honor a no (spoken or unspoken).
3. Please arrive ready to practice respectful, competent consent.

✨ Expectations

To help keep this space safe and clear:

1. Being invited doesn’t guarantee cuddles with me or anyone else.
2. If you’d like to cuddle, kindly ask others directly—no one is obligated to invite or accept.
3. “Cuddling” here can include things like leaning, holding hands, shoulder rubs, or head scratches—but only with consent.

🤝 Helping hands

If you have a few minutes to spare before or after the movie, I'd really appreciate your help with a few things.

Setup (before the event):

1. Move the mattresses into the cuddle space.

Teardown (after the event):

1. Move the mattresses back.
2. Load the dishwasher.
3. Help find people to take leftover food.
4. Clear the table.

🩺 Covid Policy

If you’re feeling sick, please rest at home and join us next time.

💬 After the Movie

The event officially ends when the film does. Some folks may stay later to chat or relax—energy often shifts toward silliness or deeper connection. You’re welcome to linger, though please:

1. Keep voices to a normal level
2. Use the TV only for background music after the movie.
3. Expect that I may head to bed even if you’re still enjoying yourself.

🌸 Cuddle & Movie Night FAQ 🌸

Welcome! This FAQ is here so you know what to expect, what to bring, and how to make this a safe, cozy, and fun space for everyone.

💕 What does “platonic cuddling” mean?

Platonic cuddling is touch and closeness without sexual or romantic intent.

It can look like:

1. Sitting shoulder-to-shoulder
2. Holding hands
3. Leaning together
4. Back rubs or light head scratches
5. Snuggling on the couch

Every cuddle is based on mutual consent.

✅ How does consent work here?

Consent is at the heart of this gathering.

1. Ask first before touching or cuddling.
2. A “no” is always respected—spoken, unspoken, or felt.
3. “Yes” means enthusiastic agreement (verbal or clear gesture).
4. You can change your mind anytime—just say so or shift away.

🧺 What should I bring?

1. A potluck dish to share (something you enjoy eating).
2. Comfy clothes—think pajamas, sweats, soft fabrics
3. Optional: a blanket, pillow, or a favorite stuffed animal.

🛋️ What should I expect when I arrive?

1. Take off shoes inside.
2. Put food in the kitchen.
3. Grab a name tag.
4. Socialize until 7:00 PM.
5. Movie starts at 7:00, with a short intermission for stretching, restroom, and cuddle shuffles.

🕒 What if I arrive late?

You’re still welcome, but cuddling is much easier if you come before the movie starts. Late arrivals may find fewer cuddle options.

🤲 Do I have to cuddle?

Nope. You can come just to eat, watch the movie, and hang out.

Cuddling is always optional.

❤️ What if I get aroused?

It’s natural for bodies to respond sometimes. If you notice yourself getting aroused, please shift positions or take a short break so everyone stays comfortable and safe.

🎬 What about during the movie?

1. Subtitles are usually on.
2. Gentle whispers are okay, but please keep volume low.
3. After the movie, the event officially ends—though people may stay a bit to chat or relax quietly.

💸 What does it cost?

This event is free. Just bring food to share.

⚖️ Liability Waiver

By attending, you acknowledge that you are responsible for your own choices, actions, and comfort during the event. The host cannot assume liability.

🌱 Community & Support

Do you have a birthday, milestone, or special occasion coming up and want to host your own cuddle gathering? I’d love to help you create that container.

📽️ Can I suggest a movie?

Yes, absolutely! Share your favorites—this works best when everyone contributes ideas.