Dads, Boys, and Sons M/M Spanking Party

This months spanking party is all about the dynamics of Dads, Boys, and Sons. Together we will enjoy seeing all fatherly figures spanking the naughty boys and sons in many different positions.

18+ for all male identifying individuals. From beginners to the experienced. 18-21 are subject to ID verification.

Once upstairs you will enter the space where up to 11+ spanking zones are created for simultaneous spankings at any time.

We have Spanking furniture

Spanking benches, a St Andrews Cross, massage tables, Kneeling benches, and chairs for OTK

Please BYO:

1. Implements:belts, paddles, straps, canes, floggers, pervertables etc.
2. NO HOUSE IMPLEMENTS
3. Clean implements after each use
4. Snacks to share for the communal snack table (optional)

We provide

1. Alcohol and paper towels
2. Clean furniture before and after use
3. Clean implements after each use
4. Light refreshments

Rules

1. Consent first & for everything: yes means yes, no means no
2. Safewords: Yellow - checkin & Red - Stop
3. Respect scenes in progress: don't interrupt or join without permission
4. No Phones in play areas
5. Respect titles however role-play is not hierarchy, character over credentials.
6. No Kink Shaming
7. Clothing optional. Wear what’s comfortable.
8. Communicate and know your limits
9. Pace yourself to give/receive as much as you want.
10. **This is not the party for extreme play, broken and bleeding skin**

Schedule

Show up early as the space is open to socialize and please arrive by 2PM for the rules and introductions.

1:15pm Doors open, upon entry please take off your shoes and check in.

2pm Rules and introductions

2:30-6pm Open play

Facilitator

This container will be guided by Dan, a seasoned member of the Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection — reminding participants that this is as much about presence and community as it is about the intensity of the act itself. His facilitation ensures that whether you’re a newcomer or deeply experienced, you’ll feel held, supported, and free to explore at your own pace.

The meaning behind BARE Connections

BARE Connections is built to bring people together through fun, connection, and consent. We create inclusive spaces for consensual spanking—from men’s-only and role-play events to gender-led and mixed dynamics—welcoming all experience levels and all ages 18+ to explore in a safe, respectful, and trusting environment.

B - Bonds: earned trust and authentic connection

A - Attention: intentional focus, presence, and care

R - Rites: Knowledge, experience, skills, implements, and safety

E - Energy: The shared exchange and emotions that shape how your partner genuinely experiences the scene, rather than a disconnected act

Final Details

1. Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem, 113 E 125th St. 10035 - Unfortunately, The Sanctuary of East Harlem is not wheelchair accessible. Guests must be able to walk up a flight of stairs (20 steps).
2. When: Saturday, October 25th
3. Time: 1:30PM - 6:00PM
4. Tickets: 30.00 Regular $20.00 Members