This is not your average dance class - this is Dancegasm: a playful, sexy, judgment-free space to move, explore, and feel yourself. Expect a theme, juicy music, simple prompts, lots of movement and flow, and zero pressure to “look” any kind of way.
This event is for people who love dance and those who are afraid of dance. It's for those who have been to sexy spaces before and those who are curious. Extra care is put into cultivating welcoming vibes, comfort, and personal agency.
This is a guided, sensual, creativity-forward movement experience designed to help participants dance their way out of the thinking mind and into the feeling body. It isn’t about choreography or performance. Discover yourself through your own movement & self-expression. Connect with yourself and others. The goal is presence, pleasure, flow, and circulation of Eros energy.
LOCATION IN LITTLE ITALY, MANHATTAN, NYC. ADDRESS IN CONFIRMATION EMAIL
WARM-UP
- Doors Open 7:30PM - 7:40PM
- We begin with a gentle warmup to get out of our heads and into our bodies. Think: stretching, rocking, and connecting to the flow of the music.
- We start to break habitual movement patterns, break up blockages, and get playful while exploring the space.
- This is when we set personal intentions and introduce the theme for the night.
GUIDED DANCE (Focus: Self)
- 7:40PM - 8:40PM
- The facilitator will guide you through different styles of movement with various prompts to opt-into.
- Prompts vary and may include sensation-based, game-based, or other imaginative activities.
- Some prompts may inspire you to dance with others - these interactions are ALWAYS opt-in and based on mutual desire & comfort.
- All are expected to uphold our safety culture surrounding things like initiating connections, reading body language, checking in with yourself, and exercising your agency.
EXPLORATORY DANCE (Sexy Dance Together Allowed)
- 8:40PM - 9:20PM
- At this point, you can dance and explore freely and with others without further suggestions from the facilitator. We will begin this hour with engagement around consent & safety to clarify etiquette and expectations.
- Sexy dance-play with others is allowed IF THERE IS MUTUAL DESIRE AND EXPLICIT ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT.
- During our weekly sessions, limits on sexploratory dance include:
- Light sexy play only. ✅ OK: grinding, exploratory touch, deep kissing, breath, heavy petting, etc.
- ❌ NOT OK (save these for the monthly party): full nudity, goal-oriented genital stimulation (such as oral or penetrative play)
Details
- Come Alone or With Someone! Come solo or bring a partner, a friend, a group of coworkers, your frenemies, or your entire polycule! You'll have opportunities to interact with others, which allows for practice with familiar partners and new acquaintances. We do not pair people up and encourage guests to make friends and engage to their level of comfort. Couples can stay paired the whole time or choose to practice with others.
- Dress Code: Feel free to dress however you want but make sure you can move freely comfortably. We recommend athletic wear you feel hot in, bodysuits, leggings, mesh, or sexy underwear (that you can move freely in). Please keep a courtesy covering over your genitals.
- Hydration: While we provide light snacks, water, and cups, we recommend bringing your own bottles.
- Who Can Come: This session is open to all gender identifications, orientations, lifestyles, singles, and couples. All experience levels are welcome. 21+
- ⚠️ Accessibility: This is a pre-elevator building and may not be accessible to everyone! Take your time during the 5-floor walkup - consider it a warm-up!
REQUIRED ACKNOWLEDGEMENT: It should go without saying, but we are going to spell it out clearly nonetheless: kink and intimacy activities are inherently risky. Safety requires practice and cannot be guaranteed. By attending, you agree to participate at your own risk, conduct your own risk management, and agree to hold the event facilitators and facility harmless for any type of physical or emotional harm that may occur.
Other Guidelines:
- ⚠️Keep in mind, this is not a casual hookup or “cruising” environment - we encourage you to build your connections with others slowly and without an agenda.
- There is no pressure to engage in anything you do not wish to! You may opt-in to interactions with others, dance on your own, watch, or socialize by the snacks.
- Avoid gendered terms or assumptions
- Proactively check in with your own body language and that of others.
- Please utilize one of our many reporting options to speak up if you feel uncomfortable at any time, including after the event.
LATE ENTRY & REFUNDS
To protect the space and ensure a seamless experience for all, doors will close promptly. Late arrivals may not be admitted, and refunds will not be available. Refund requests must be made up to seven days prior to the event.