Kinky Shadow Work Series

Decolonizing Polyamory: Unlearning Mononormativity & Building Community

Event Details

1. 🕗 Workshop: 7:30pm
2. 🕗 Event ends: 10:30pm
3. 📍 Location: Herald Square NYC (Full address provided in your confirmation email)
4. 🌟 Accessibility: This venue has elevator access

🌀 Polyamory is often taught through frameworks that were never designed to hold it.

When we reclaim our ancestral wisdom, we find our way back to an understanding of love as a living ecosystem — regenerative, interconnected, and in constant flow. Indigenous ways of relating to land, community, and life itself offer a profound map for how our relationships can move.

🌿 What We'll Explore Together:

We'll explore what becomes possible when we tend our relationships the way indigenous peoples have always tended the land — with patience, reverence, and trust in natural cycles. Imagine your relationship constellation as a living garden, where each connection pollinates the next, desire flows freely across your whole community, and abundance sustains itself organically.

Through somatic practice, guided meditation, and indigenous-informed frameworks, you'll be invited to drop out of your head and into your body — feeling into what's most alive in your current connections and letting that wisdom lead the way.

What You'll Learn:

💜 How Mononormativity shapes our relationship to love, even in poly spaces

💜 An indigenous lens on love as ecosystem instead of a transaction

💜 How scarcity mindset creates disharmony in ENM — and how to shift it

💜 Mapping your current relationship ecosystem

💜 How to build sustainable poly community, not just sustainable partnerships

💜 Somatic practices for transforming jealousy and scarcity into regenerative flow

💜 A guided meditation to tune into what feels most alive in your connections

Who This Is For: Whether you're new to non-monogamy or a seasoned practitioner, whether you're currently partnered or not — this space is for anyone ready to reimagine how love can move through their life.

This is a trauma-informed, kink-aware, non-monogamy-affirming space. All genders, orientations, and relationship styles welcome.

This is a trauma-informed, kink-aware, non-monogamy-affirming space. All genders, orientations, and relationship styles welcome. You do not need to be currently partnered to attend.

🧰 What to Wear / What to Bring:

1. Comfortable clothes you can move and sit in for extended periods
2. A journal and pen
3. Water bottle and snacks
4. Optional: personal objects for comfort (crystals, pillows, etc.)
5. Curiosity, compassion, and a willingness to go deep

About Facilitators

Danny and Vanessa are trauma-informed Psychedelic Integration, intimacy and relationship coaches who specialize in helping couples heal and thrive through sacred connection. With over a decade of experience studying tantra, psychedelic integration, and somatic practices, they bring a unique blend of ancient wisdom and modern science to their teaching.

Vanessa and Danny’s journey from toxic relationship patterns to tantric intimacy has fueled their passion to guide others toward emotional safety and fulfillment. Through intimacy tool like psychedelic therapies, tantra, somatic, kink and pleasure healing Danny and Vanessa offer a compassionate approach rooted in trauma healing and nervous system regulation. Together, they’ve created transformative workshops, coaching programs, and events that inspire couples to embrace vulnerability, passion, and deep connection.

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TICKETS

Prices increase as tiers sell out—don’t wait! Bring a friend/partner and save.

🎟️ Workshop $45

LATE ENTRY AND REFUNDS

Refunds must be requested 7 days prior to event - if you can't make it, please gift or sell your ticket to a worthy soul. To protect the space, late arrivals will not be admitted after doors close, and refunds will not be provided.

Important Notice

Pagans Paradise events are intended for educational and entertainment purposes, and attendees participate at their own risk. Some events may involve physical or emotional exploration, and by attending, you agree to take personal responsibility for your well-being. Pagans Paradise upholds Eventbrite's community guidelines, this event is not sex-based, hookup-style, explicit, or pornographic, and all activities within our events are consensual, respectful, and professionally guided.

ABOUT US

At Pagans Paradise, we believe in creating a welcoming, joyful space for everyone to explore connection, dive into a range of educational resources, and nurture their authentic selves.

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Pagans Paradise has been fostering joy and connection in the community for 10 years.

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