DESIRE - A Sacred Play Ritual! (private event)

Desire! A safe, structured, sexy space for consensually exploring your DESIRE.

* NOTE: DESIRE is a private, members-only event. In order to keep the integrity of the container, all members are vetted, so if you haven’t received a “Welcome to the Tribe” email from us, you’ll need to be accompanied by an approved member to purchase a ticket. Tickets from unapproved non-members will be refunded. Want to join? Apply here: https://www.tantrany.com/desire/ *

Not sure if Desire is for you? We have an orientation video we send to members, email us to ask for it, as it goes over everything that happens at an event.

A safe, structured, sexy space for consensually exploring your desire.

Held in an upscale location, surrounded by the warmth of love and community. Join us for a ceremonial approach to sensuality.Whether you get your exhibitionist on, enjoy a cuddle or a convo... bask in the love blanket or ON your love blanket... it's all about tuning to your desire.You are always 100% at choice. We'll demonstrate and practice consent & negotiation skills so we can have a common language in fulfilling our desires.

Special Features at Our Event

Below are a selection of offerings and stations you may experience at Desire:

🎷 Yoni Saxing

Jehiah will serenade your sacral chakra with his sensual saxophone, directing the vibrations straight to your most intimate areas for a titillating "saxual" healing experience.

⛓️ Rope Station (Facilitated by Skye and James)

Experience the thrill of rope play, the soothing sting or thud of floggers, and the sensory journey that binds you to the present moment. Explore trust, power, and vulnerability—whether you’re the Dom or sub. Your pleasure awaits—dare to embrace it.

🙏🏼 Daka & Dakini Tantric Healing Station

Our CTE-trained Desire Angels, daka, and dakinis will guide you through powerful tantric healing (including sacred spot massage if you choose), clearing old blockages, and welcoming in vibrant, transformative energy.

What to Expect at Desire

1. Cacao
2. Meditation
3. Consent review and practice
4. Sacred Tantric Puja
5. Embodiment practice
6. Desire Angel team for support
7. Free time to explore connections

There is both a facilitated portion of the evening to get us all connected, and then there is free time to explore your desires!

What to Bring?

We will provide cacao, snacks, activities to get the night off to a fun start and items for healthy play. You'll want to bring a towel, favorite toys, any outfits that turn you on.

Flow

Arrivals begin at the published start time. Doors will close 30 minutes after. That's when we'll begin with a Tantra-themed opening circle, create a safe container together (which will include discussion and practice of consent and event rules) and share our desires. There will be some group guided activities in the form of a sacred puja so we can get more connected. The group activity then opens up for free play, where you'll have approximately 2-3 hours to explore your desire. Afterwards, we'll get together for a closing circle to share our discoveries, gratitudes, and favorite moments.

Important Details

1. DESIRE IS A PRIVATE, MEMBERS ONLY EVENT - Members can accompany non-members. But all who come to the event must apply for membership. (You can bring a friend, just make sure they get their application in soon enough before the event that we have time to approve them.)
2. This is a sober event - no alcohol or substances are allowed. Please do not arrive inebriated or you will be sent home.

What People Say

Lead Facilitator

Guy Shahar is the Co-Founder and Lead Facilitator of The Tantra Institute and the creator of Tantra Speed Date®. As an Elite Certified Tantra Educator (CTE 5), he’s studied and/or taught diverse practices including Tantra, Sacred Spot Massage, Morehouse, Orgasmic Meditation, BDSM, ISTA, Quodoushka, and others.

Guy is deeply committed to his journey of becoming a Better Lover and helping others do the same. Through Tantra Speed Date®, he bridges the masculine-feminine divide, empowering singles to connect more meaningfully through a dating puja ceremony. Over 140,000 people have attended Tantra Institute events in 60+ cities worldwide since 2017.

Guy’s expertise has earned widespread recognition, with appearances on TV and features in major publications like The New Yorker, Time Out New York, San Francisco Chronicle, The Sunday Times and others.

As a Daka, Guy fully embraces sacred sexuality. His real-world experience and profound inner work, including triumphing over his own trauma, establish him as a leader in holding space for others’ personal transformation. There’s no place he’d rather be; he considers this his highest calling.

* NOTE: DESIRE is a private, members-only event. In order to keep the integrity of the container, all members are vetted, so if you haven’t received a “Welcome to the Tribe” email from us, you’ll need to be accompanied by an approved member to purchase a ticket. Tickets from unapproved non-members will be refunded. Want to join? Apply here: https://www.tantrany.com/desire/ *

Not sure if Desire is for you? We have an orientation video we send to members, email us to ask for it, as it goes over everything that happens at an event.