DesireStarter 5-Pack: Private Sex and Intimacy Coaching Sessions Start In September
- Hosted by Daniela Stevens • Sex & Intimacy Coach for Couples and Individuals
- Online via Zoom
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DesireStarter 5-Pack: Private Sex and Intimacy Coaching Sessions Start In September
A TASTE OF WHAT'S POSSIBLE IN FIVE WEEKS
Experience Deep Sexual Connection and Intimacy
with Yourself and/or Your Partner
For Couples or Individuals,
Queer Folk & Straight People,
CNM & Monogamous Dynamics
YOU KNOW YOU'RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE IF YOU ARE...
- Not in a relationship and want to explore your sexuality and expression with yourself on your own terms while relinquishing shame and fear.
- In a relationship and are excited to learn about yourself and what you desire inside of a brave container.
- Dating and/or having casual sex and want to cultivate your authenticity and skills while modeling to a partner(s) to do the same.
- Queer, straight, CNM, and/or practicing additional expressions & dynamics and desire to know who you are and what you want outside of oppressive dominant paradigms.
- Part of a couple whose relationship is new and who want to start off with clarity, honesty, and self-awareness toward depth.
- A long-term committed couple who wants to reconnect and are willing to learn about yourself and one another to begin again.
- A committed couple at any stage who desires to go deeper and explore who you are to grow an amazing relationship and sex life.
THIS IS NOT FOR:
Two people who are one step away from calling it quits and who are using this as a last ditch effort.
People who need a trauma specialist and may have specific sexual trauma, diagnosed PTSD, or need to seek other inner work prior to beginning this DesireStarter 5-session experience.
Two people who aren’t sure if they love each other anymore and are seeking a quick fix or are trying to stay together out of obligation.
GAIN & REFINE THESE SKILLS:
1. CLARIFY: YOUR NEEDS, YOUR WANTS, YOUR DESIRES, YOUR FEARS, YOUR TRIGGERS.
By identifying and educating how you’re wired sexually, romantically and relationally, we begin to name the blocks, obstacles, challenges, and systems that stand in your way.
2. CONNECT: YOUR BODY, YOUR MIND, YOUR HEART, YOUR SEX.
By embodying, exploring, and experiencing love and sex with authenticity, we also develop deep awareness of systemic oppression alongside personal experiences from your own life, ancestry, and lineage.
3. COMMUNICATE: VERBAL, NON-VERBAL, VIBES, EMOTIONS, WRITTEN, TEXT.
By celebrating, holding space, and sharing, we grow the skills of allowing, inviting, giving and receiving through compassion. We learn to replace shame with unconditional love, safety, belonging, joy, pleasure, and acceptance.
4. HEAL: MISUNDERSTANDINGS, GUILT, ANGER, TRAUMA, RESENTMENT.
By witnessing, feeling, and liberating past experiences, grudges, resentments, and trauma, we can process deep feelings, vulnerable sensations, and triggered reactions wired in from your personal past, ancestry, and collective trauma experiences.
5. START A SEX PRACTICE (SELF-PLEASURE OR PARTNERED SEX): EXPLORE, EXPRESS, INVITE, REQUEST, OFFER, RECEIVE.
By forming a container, setting intentions, establishing mindsets, and exploring practical erotic and sexual intimacy knowledge, skills, and rituals, we can create a connected relationship to ourselves and co-create the sex we want (and the intimacy we desire).
ON THIS JOURNEY I WILL SUPPORT YOU WITH:
- Five sessions within two months (90 minutes if there’s two of you; 60 minutes if it’s us one-on-one)
- Curated guided audios, resources, practices, and exercises for home play and exploration
- Email accountability in between sessions
WHO AM I?
NAMED ONE OF THE 10 BEST SEX & INTIMACY COACHES OF 2023 BY DATINGADVICE.COM
Hey, there. I am Daniela (she/they pronouns).
With over twenty years of experience coaching people one-on-one and teaching in college classrooms and yoga studios, I am here to support you in experience deep sexual connection and intimacy with yourself and with your partner(s) curating embodied exercises and practices steeped in embodied attachment theory, neuroscience, embodied conflict resolution, trauma healing, modern psychology, embodied conflict resolution, and ancient tantric and taoist wisdom.
I am a certified Sex and Intimacy Coach, speaker, and writer practicing somatic abolitionist and neo-tantra. I am also a queer cisgendered woman raced as white born in the Bay Area as well as a biological and transnational adoptive parent of three. I live and work as an uninvited guest on occupied Muwekma Ohlone land that’s known as San Jose, California in the United States.
For me, nothing is more important than connection.
YOUR INVESTMENT AS AN INDIVIDUAL IS:
ONE PAYMENT: $1,500 USD
or
TWO PAYMENTS IN TWO MONTHS: $750 USD per month
** I don't believe in an interest penalty if you do a deposit and payment plan; these add up to the same total number.
YOUR INVESTMENT AS A COUPLE IS:
ONE PAYMENT: $2,250 USD
or
TWO PAYMENTS IN TWO MONTHS: $1,125 USD per month
** I don't believe in an interest penalty if you do a deposit and payment plan; these add up to the same total number.