Diaper Debauchery

ABDL BDSM Play Party

Hosted by SirDanNYC and The Sanctuary of East Harlem

This is a space where you can be fully yourself—diapered, kinky, and free. Whether you're a little, middle, big, or caregiver, this event is designed for those who want to explore ABDL within a BDSM setting without compromise. Diapers are welcome but never required—come as you are, dressed (or undressed) to your comfort level.

For all sorts of kinky mayhem. It's a great place to find community, play and have fun, or grab some cuddles and socialize.

This isn’t a nursery-themed gathering; it’s a play party where impact, rope, sensation play, electro, and other kinks take center stage.

Leather, rubber, pup gear, and all kink expressions are celebrated alongside ABDL. Expect an atmosphere of soft lighting, immersive music, and equipment like St. Andrew’s crosses, spanking benches, and suspension rigs to fuel your play.

What to Bring:

- Sensory comforts (stuffies, blankies, pacifiers, etc.) for aftercare or little space.

- Your favorite gear/toys to share (or keep to yourself!).

- A snack to contribute and any personal beverages (BYOB, no drugs).

Event Flow:

8 PM – Doors open | Mingle & settle in

9:00 PM – Opening Circle | Introductions & intentions

9:30 PM–1:00 AM – Play space open

House Rules (Non-Negotiable):

- Wet diapers only (no mess) - There is a changing station

- Consent is mandatory—no means no.

- Sex may occur within scenes but isn’t the focus.

- 21+ | Sober play only (alcohol permitted in moderation).

Cost:

Advance Tickets https://ssdce-events.zohobackstage.com/DiaperDebaucheryParty1

$40 Regular Tickets

$30 Member Tickets

Pay at the Door (Cash, Venmo, CashApp, Zelle, PayPal):

$50 Regular Tickets

$40 Member Tickets

This is a rare space to merge ABDL and BDSM freely.

A great way to find community and have fun