Diaper Debauchery

Diaper Debauchery

This is a party where you can show up exactly as you are—diapered, kinky, and free to express yourself.

Leave the nursery behind - this is an adult playground where playful energy meets kinky discovery and a whole lot of debauchery.

Diaper Debauchery is part of The Sanctuary Sessions hosted at The Sanctuary of East Harlem - a safe, welcoming space for all diaper expressions - ABDL, chastity, furry, rubber, pup, rope, sports, fisting, and beyond. You can expect to socialize, cuddle, engage in debauchery or explore diapers and kink together in our own private space built on respect, curiosity, and consent.

While the event welcomes all identities, it’s rooted in a queer-friendly ABDL and kink community. Inviting a warm, diverse mix of people, energy, and expression. Expect a colorful, playful crowd that celebrates curiosity, connection, and the freedom to show up exactly as you are.

What You’ll Experience:

1. Separate Social & Cuddle Areas and play spaces
2. Consent & Safety – Safewords, check-ins, and clear boundaries
3. Atmosphere: Soft lighting and immersive music

Event Flow 🌊:

1. 8:00 PM Doors Open - Meet, mingle, and socialize
2. 8:45 PM Opening Circle: rules for safe play
3. 9:00 PM–1AM: Open play with equipment like a St. Andrew’s cross, spanking benches, and suspension rigs—plus room for softer moments, aftercare and cuddling

What You’ll Take Away 💪🏻:

1. A rare chance to bring together all diaper communities and kink expressions without judgment
2. The freedom to show up in your gear, in your diapers, or simply as yourself
3. Opportunities to learn, watch, and play across multiple kink expressions
4. Connection with a community that celebrates authenticity and curiosity
5. The comfort of knowing consent and care are at the center of everything

What to Bring 🧳

1. Sensory comforts: stuffies, blankies, pacifiers, or anything that helps you land in little space or aftercare.
2. Gear & toys: bring your own to use or share.
3. Snacks & drinks: a shareable snack or drink is always welcome.
4. BYOB (3) | Remember your:
5. Booze (drinking in moderation only)
6. Buzzies
7. Bottles

House Rules (Non-Negotiable) 🔴

1. Wet diapers only (no mess).
2. Consent is mandatory—no means no and bare skin does not mean yes.
3. Sex may occur within scenes but is never the focus.
4. 18+ | Sober play only (moderate alcohol permitted).

Your Facilitator 🤸🏼‍♂️

This container will be guided by Dan, a seasoned member of the Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for men’s erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection — reminding participants that this is as much about presence and community as it is about the intensity of the act itself. His facilitation ensures that whether you’re a newcomer or deeply experienced, you’ll feel held, supported, and free to explore at your own pace.

Event Details 📆

1. Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem, 113 E 125th St., NY, NY 10035 (Push the street door firmly; space is up one flight of stairs. Not wheelchair accessible.)
2. When: Saturday January 10th, (Or Every Second Saturday of the Month)
3. Time: 8PM - 1AM

Tickets 🎟️

$30 Regular | $20 Member

Tickets at the door (cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle and PayPal)

Diaper Debauchery is one of the only parties where Diapers and kink coexist freely. Come curious, come playful, come as you are. Leave connected.