Diaper Debauchery
An ABDL + BDSM Play Party
Hosted by Dan & The Kink Collective at The Sanctuary of East Harlem
This is a party where you can show up exactly as you are—diapered, kinky, and free. Diaper Debauchery is designed for people who identify as ABDL and want to explore their kink in a space where BDSM play is fully welcome.
Unlike nursery-themed littles parties, this is a full-spectrum play space. Whether you’re into diapers, spanking, rope, fire, electro, sensation, or pup play—you’ll find room here to explore without compromise. Diapers are welcome, but never required.
What You’ll Experience
- Opening Circle (9PM): Introductions, intentions, and grounding the group before play begins.
- Play Space (9:30PM–1AM): Five hours of open play with equipment like St. Andrew’s crosses, spanking benches, and suspension rigs—plus room for softer moments, little space, and aftercare.
- Atmosphere: Soft lighting, immersive music, and a mix of leather, rubber, ABDL, and all kink expressions celebrated side by side.
What You’ll Take Away
- A rare chance to merge ABDL with BDSM openly and without judgment
- The freedom to show up in your gear, in your diapers, or simply as yourself
- Opportunities to learn, watch, and play across multiple kink expressions
- Connection with a community that celebrates authenticity and curiosity
- The comfort of knowing consent and care are at the center of everything
What to Bring
- Sensory comforts: stuffies, blankies, pacifiers, or anything that helps you land in little space or aftercare.
- Gear & toys: bring your own to use or share.
- Snacks & drinks: contribute to the communal table; BYOB (no drugs).
House Rules (Non-Negotiable)
- Wet diapers only (no mess).
- Consent is mandatory—no means no.
- Sex may occur within scenes but is never the focus.
- 21+ | Sober play only (moderate alcohol permitted).
Event Flow
- 8:00 PM – Doors open | Mingle & settle in
- 9:00 PM – Opening Circle | Introductions & intentions
- 9:30 PM–1:00 AM – Play space open
Event Details
- Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem, 113 E 125th St., NY, NY 10035 (Push the street door firmly; space is up one flight of stairs. Not wheelchair accessible.)
- When: Saturday September 13th, 2025
- Who: 18+
Tickets
- Advance: $40 Regular | $30 Member
- Door: $50 Regular | $40 Member
🎟️ Purchase Your Advance Tickets Here!
Diaper Debauchery is one of the only parties where ABDL and BDSM coexist freely. Come curious, come playful, come as you are. Leave connected.