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Diaper Debauchery: An ABDL BDSM Play Party

This is a party where you can show up exactly as you are—diapered, k!nky, and free.

Diaper Debauchery is designed for people who identify as ABDL and want to explore their k!nk in a space where BD$M play is fully welcome.

Unlike nursery-themed littles parties, this is a full-spectrum play space. Whether you’re into diapers, sp@nking, r0pe, fire, electr0, sens@tion, or pup play—you’ll find room here to explore without compromise. Diapers are welcome, but never required.

Atmosphere: Soft lighting, immersive music, and a mix of leather, rubber, ABDL, and all k!nk expressions celebrated side by side.

What You’ll Take Away

  1. A rare chance to merge ABDL with BD$M openly and without judgment
  2. The freedom to show up in your gear, in your diapers, or simply as yourself
  3. Opportunities to learn, watch, and play across multiple k!nk expressions
  4. Connection with a community that celebrates authenticity and curiosity
  5. The comfort of knowing consent and care are at the center of everything

What You’ll Experience

  1. Opening Circle (9PM): Introductions, intentions, and grounding the group before play begins.
  2. Play Space (9:30PM–1AM): Five hours of open play with equipment like St. Andrew’s crosses, spanking benches, and suspension rigs—plus room for softer moments, little space, and aftercare.
  3. Atmosphere: Soft lighting, immersive music, and a mix of leather, rubber, ABDL, and all kink expressions celebrated side by side.

What to Bring

  1. Sensory comforts: stuffies, blankies, pacifiers, or anything that helps you land in little space or aftercare.
  2. Gear & toys: bring your own to use or share.
  3. Snacks & drinks: contribute to the communal table; BYOB (no drugs).

House Rules (Non-Negotiable)

  1. Wet diapers only (no mess).
  2. Consent is mandatory—no means no.
  3. S3x may occur within scenes but is never the focus.
  4. 18+ | Sober play only (moderate alcohol permitted).

Event Details

  1. Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem, 113 E 125th St., NY, NY 10035 (Push the street door firmly; space is up one flight of stairs. Not wheelchair accessible.)
  2. When: Saturday October 11th, (Or Every Second Saturday of the Month)

Tickets

  1. Advance: $40 Regular | $30 Member
  2. Door: $50 Regular | $40 Member

🎟️ Get Your Advance Tickets Here! 🎟️

Diaper Debauchery is one of the only parties where ABDL and BD$M coexist freely. Come curious, come playful, come as you are. Leave connected.

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