About This Event
Diaper Debauchery is a kinky queer diaper community night where you can show up exactly as you are — diapered, curious, kinky, and playful.
Hosted as part of The Sanctuary Sessions, this is a queer-friendly space where ABDL and kink can coexist without judgment. It is a place for diapered expression, kinky exploration, and real community, with consent at the center of it all.
The night may include diaper play, impact, bondage, group play, insertables, voyeurism, cuddling, and aftercare. Some nights are more social, some more playful, and some more erotic, but the purpose stays the same: to give people space to express their kinks with their diapers in a room built on openness, respect, and freedom.
While this is not a sex party, consensual erotic play may naturally unfold. Nothing is assumed, no one is owed access, and watching does not equal participation.
8:00 PM | Doors Open
The room begins organically. People often start socializing, exploring, and connecting soon after
arrival.
9:00PM Brief check in & Rules
Once the room has settled, we pause briefly to go over house rules.
Then the party continues naturally and the rest of the night is open for connection, play, exploration, and expression at your own pace.
1AM Party Ends
• Separate social, cuddle, and play areas
• Soft lighting and immersive music to support the energy, mood, and pacing of the room.
• Furnished stations for impact, restraint, and intimate exploration (St. Andrew’s Cross,
spanking benches, sex bench, and more)
This container is guided by Dan, a seasoned member of The Kink Collective known for creating
relaxed, welcoming spaces for queer erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection
while making room for a wide range of expression.
The Sanctuary of East Harlem
113 East 125th Street, New York, NY 10035
Enter through the door to the right of Pizza 2 Go. Look for 113 in the window above.
Push the door hard to enter.
Accessibility
No elevator. 20 steps total.
$20 Member's Ticket | $30 Solo | $50 Partner Tickets (2)
Tickets at the door (cash, Venmo, Cashapp, Zelle and PayPal)
Diaper Debauchery is one of the only parties where ABDL and kink coexist freely. Come curious, come playful, come as you are. Leave connected.
Interested in becoming a member?
You do not need to be a member to attend Diaper Debauchery. Members receive discounted Sanctuary Sessions tickets and free access to our weekly online space, Conscious Conversations, for deeper connection and ongoing community. [link here]