Dr. Somer Nicole

Ask and You Shall Receive:

A Somatic, Consent-Led Kink Experience

This is a guided somatic exploration of desire, power, and connection, designed to build nervous system capacity, not overwhelm it. The pace is intentional and attuned, making this experience accessible for those newer to kink, as well as those experienced in conscious power dynamics.

We focus on how the body learns safety, choice, and trust in real time, especially when sensation, intimacy, and charge are present.

The Experience Includes:

1. Erotic embodiment warm-up:

Designed to awaken sensation, activate aliveness and orient the nervous system.

2. Somatic scene crafting by Rose Heartsong: Participants learn to design powerful, non-explicit kink scenes through nervous system awareness, embodied authority, intentional dynamics, and conscious aftercare — emphasizing craft, presence, and co-regulation over performance.

3. Partner breathwork + attuned touch:

Exploring connection through breath, pacing, and conscious layers of touch, including dominance expressed through presence rather than force.

4. Shibari partner work with somatic guidance:

Rope as a tool for communication, containment, and trust, with an emphasis on co-regulation and leading/following.

5. Impact & energy play:

Demonstration with hands and flogger, focused on attunement, sensation, and pacing.

Optional Add-On Experiences:

* Guests may book 30 minute private sessions with select erotic somatic arts practitioners throughout the evening. These are consent-led, personalized experiences offered as an additional paid option.

This experience is for people who want to:

• Increase capacity for intimacy, sensation, and connection

• Practice their embodied yes, no, and maybe without freezing or people-pleasing

• Explore power dynamics in a nervous-system-literate, trauma-aware way

• Learn kink as a somatic intervention and relational skill- building vs performance

• Heal patterns of bracing, dissociation, or self-abandonment around eros and desire

Clear container:

• No penetration

• Bottoms stay on

• No genital play

* This is not a sex party.

This is not about going harder or proving anything.

It’s about connecting your Power to your Voice. And staying authentic, present and honest while eros, vulnerability and power are in the room.

Investment: $111

*Add-on experiences vary per practitioner

***Your spot will be claimed when payment is received

Please eat prior to arrival. Light snacks and hydrating elixirs will be provided.

5pm Arrival, snacks and mingling

6-6:45pm Opening Circle & Shares

6:45-7pm Break

7-8:15pm Embodiment & Partner Work

8:30, 9pm, 9:30pm and 10pm slots - for 1:1 with Practitioners

10:30-11pm Closing Circle