Elevate The Art of Erotic Facilitation training w/ Major Tom & Monique D.

Our five day training in 2024 went so deep that we decided to extend it into a full seven day intensive for 2026.

ELEVATE

The Art of Erotic Facilitation

Seven Day Intensive

May 12 to 19, 2026

Cabo San Lucas, Mexico

Our five day training in 2024 went so deep that we decided to extend it into a full seven day intensive for 2026.

Join us for this immersive training where your journey as a facilitator takes flight and your unique voice becomes the catalyst for transformation.

Embark on a transformative journey with Major Tom and Monique Darling, globe trotting facilitators known for igniting change in cities, countries, and festivals worldwide. Ever wondered how we do what we do and how you could do it too? This immersion is your opportunity to learn from lived experience.

UNLEASH YOUR CONTENT ARTISTRY

At the heart of this immersive experience lies your one of a kind voice. For budding or experienced facilitators ready to elevate their craft, this seven day intensive is designed to fast track confidence, creativity, and embodied leadership.

OVERCOME BARRIERS

Hesitation to step into facilitation is often rooted in lack of confidence or uncertainty about how to hold diverse groups. This training addresses those barriers directly with humor, support, and real world experience.

YOUR TIME TO SHINE

If you have been feeling the pull to step beyond conventional paths, this is your time. Whether you want to facilitate erotic events, like temple/play parties, lead transformational spaces, or deepen your ability to hold rooms with integrity and clarity, this training supports you step by step.

WHY NOW

Your gifts matter. If you are ready to stop waiting for permission and start creating meaningful impact, Major and Monique invite you to join a community of facilitators committed to growth, authenticity, and service.

ELEVATE YOUR FACILITATION

ELEVATE YOUR VOICE

ELEVATE YOUR IMPACT

This seven day intensive explores the world of erotic positive facilitation through a practical and embodied curriculum including

Welcome Circle Wisdom

Creating warm inclusive openings for non erotic through explicitly erotic spaces

Authentic Relating Games

Building trust and intimacy from the very beginning

Behind the Scenes of Safe Brave Spaces

Creating environments that are welcoming, expansive, and grounded

Facilitator Etiquette

Ethics, responsibility, and professionalism in erotic positive spaces

Collaboration Dynamics

How one plus one can become one thousand when working with aligned partners

Party Intentions Guide

Aligning facilitation with the purpose of the event from gentle to very kinky

Music and Movement

How music sets tone, anchors learning, and supports integration

Includes a special movement session with guest teacher Peter Petersen

Exclusive vs Inclusive Dynamics

Understanding how to design spaces with clarity and care

Queer and Diversity Training

Facilitating LGBTQ plus inclusive events with integrity and awareness

Facilitating Fuller Experiential Spaces

Using decor, scent, demos, agreements, and music to create immersive experiences

LOGISTICS

When

May 12 to 19, 2026

Where

Cabo San Lucas, Mexico

Main House

Private luxury courtyard with heated saltwater pool and hot tub

Condos

Walking distance to the main house in a gated beachfront community. (6 mins walk to a private beach)

Full kitchens two bathrooms washer dryer snorkels and beach essentials

Accommodations

First come first served for room and bed selection

Singles and shared queens available

COST

Earliest Bird first 3

1797

Early Bird

1997

General Admission

2497

Tuition includes the full seven day training accommodations all materials and breakfast and lunch each day.

ABOUT YOUR FACILITATORS

Major Tom

Major is an intimacy coach and facilitator at Consciousplay dot net co founder of Temple Of Hedonism and co producer of Virtual Intimacy Retreat dot com and FROLIC Play Party Convergence.

Trained as an authentic relating facilitator he utilizes Integral Theory to create experiential practices through movement acting and intimacy. His work emphasizes brave space authenticity and growth through edge exploration.

Monique Darling

Monique Darling author of Beyond Cuddle Party has led over 4500 workshops in the past 13 years. She has taught at colleges across the United States including Yale and has been featured on TLC The Drs and international podcasts and media.

Her work supports people in reclaiming their power sensuality vulnerability and embodied presence through energetic and relational practices. You are the gift.

Learn more at www.everydaytantra.com

Peter Petersen

Guest Teacher

Peter has taught Qigong for over 25 years and has been a certified massage therapist for 18 years. He has taught in health clubs hospitals retreat centers and wellness resorts throughout Mexico and the United States including Rancho La Puerta Mayacamas Ranch and Present Moment Retreat.

His work supports grounding presence and sustainable wellbeing through movement awareness and simple daily practices.

TESTIMONIALS

Attending the Elevate workshop in Cabo was truly life changing. While the focus was on facilitation it went far beyond technique. The container Monique and Major created was deeply supportive and allowed me to grow connect and discover more of myself. Elevate is more than a training. It is a powerful journey of growth and empowerment.

A.R.

Elevate in Cabo was deeply heart opening and transformative. The sense of community authentic connection and personal healing was profound. I left feeling more whole empowered and connected to myself and others.

S.G.

When I first heard about Elevate I did not think it was something I needed. Attending changed everything. The space Monique and Major held helped me soften protective layers trust my voice and step into my full expression. Elevate transformed how I show up in my life and as a facilitator.

L.M.

From the moment I stepped into Elevate I felt like I had come home. The belonging healing and encouragement I experienced helped me reclaim my confidence and power. Elevate is more than a training. It is a profound journey of connection and self discovery.

J.K.