Empowered Bottoming: Becoming a Confident and Skilled Scene Partner w/ Princess Rara - Virtual Class

Are you eager to become a more confident and skilled bottom in BDSM scenes? While there are many classes focused on improving a Top’s skills, being a skilled bottom is just as important for a successful scene. By enhancing your bottoming abilities, you gain self-respect and contribute greatly to the dynamics and satisfaction of a scene.

This interactive workshop is open to individuals of all experience levels and identities, offering a supportive space for bottoms to explore, learn, and grow. Whether you're new to bottoming or looking to refine your skills, this class will help you master the role, boost your confidence, and improve your scene partnerships. Participants will engage in open discussions and collaborative learning.

Key points include:

1. Improving Communication Skills: Learn how to express your needs and preferences clearly.
2. Effective Negotiation Techniques: Discover how to negotiate scenes to ensure mutual understanding and consent.
3. Safety and Risk Awareness: Understand how to stay safe and manage risks during scenes.
4. Integrating Performance Feedback: Get tips on how to give and receive feedback to enhance your scene experience.
5. Self-Reflection: Engage in self-reflection to better understand your desires and limits.
6. Becoming Your Own Advocate: Learn how to advocate for yourself and your needs in BDSM play.

Whether you’re interested in sensation play, bondage, or exploring power dynamics, this class will provide you with the tools and knowledge to navigate your bottoming role with confidence and skill.

Presenter Bio:

Princess Rara (she/her) is a sadomasochist, kink educator, and the founder of Pink Kink—a platform that is dedicated to helping kinksters build confident, ethical kink lives. With ten years in the BDSM community, she brings a blend of experience, honesty, and humor to everything she teaches.

Her classes cover both foundational and advanced topics, always with a focus on real-world application, consent, and personal growth. Known for her warm, inclusive, and engaging teaching style, Rara doesn't talk at her students—she creates space for discussion, story-sharing, and connection. Her goal is to meet people where they are, help them feel seen and validated, and support their journey toward more intentional and empowered kink.

Rara has taught for organizations including Dark Odyssey, Studio 58, and Wicked Grounds. In the DC area, she’s also a munch host, Demo/House Top, occasional Pro Domme, and party host in her private dungeon. No matter the setting, she is committed to creating spaces where kinksters of all kinds feel respected, supported, and safe to explore who they are.

Class Notes:

This class is offered only as a virtual class.

About Society of Janus

Society of Janus is and has always been an organization made up of the community and in service to the community. We are stronger for our diversity, including adults of all genders, orientations, colors, ethnicities, roles, and experience levels. We welcome all who have a genuine interest in kink and who respect each other's rights to self-expression, self-exploration, and authenticity. At each and every one of our events, we will strive to maintain and enforce a respectful and safe space for all attendees in celebration of this diversity, and expect the same of all attendees.

Read our Consent and Harassment Guidelines here.

The Society of Janus is a not-for-profit, all volunteer, San Francisco-based education and support organization devoted to the art of hot, consensual and non-exploitative BDSM.

Janus provides an opportunity to meet others with similar interests in a safe, relaxed atmosphere. Society of Janus is open to people of all genders, sexual orientations, roles, and experience levels. Janus members are from all over the SF Bay Area. We host and sponsor events in many locations around the bay.