Enhancing Long Distance D/s

Enhancing Long Distance D/s

Tuesday, July 15th, 2025, 6pm PT

Many of the typically recommended activities for D/s — protocol, service, orders — are very different when your D/s is long distance. But there are still so many options for control, play, and connection. For some people, long distance D/s has a variety of benefits that in person / short distance D/s doesn't have. Come chat, brainstorm, and share ideas of what has worked for long distance D/s; you'll leave with a plethora of ideas for power, control, and surrender, to implement in your own long distance relationships.

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Join me every month for a Patreon exclusive class as part of my:

Power and Pleasure: Monthly D/s & Erotica Writing Workshops

Patreon-exclusive | Alternating Tracks for D/s & Erotica Writing

I’m so excited to invite you to this monthly series of live, interactive workshops designed to support two key areas of your life: your D/s relationships and your erotic writing practice. We alternate each month between two ongoing tracks—one focused on Dominance/submission dynamics, the other on writing bold, explicit, and authentic erotic fiction.

You’ve likely been to a workshop with me in the past, so you know that my workshops are casual, creative, and community-centered. They’re held in a queer-, kink-, and trans-focused space that’s trauma-informed and committed to decentering white supremacy in how we learn and create (and how I facilitate). All experience levels are welcome—whether you’re new, nervous, or experienced and looking for new depth.

(If you haven’t been to a workshop with me, watch for an announcement about the Sugarbutch VIP webinar archive, opening soon exclusively for Patreon subscribers.)

2025 Upcoming Workshop Schedule:

- JULY – Enhancing Long Distance D/s

- AUG – Fierce Submission: Spicy Publishing 101

- SEPT – Daddy 101: Build the Foundation

- OCT – How Do I Write the Sex Part Tho?!

- NOV – Frameworks for D/s Training

- DEC – Get Yourself Off: Spicy Self Publishing 101

Here are details about the two tracks:

🔥 Erotica Writing Track

These sessions are for closet writers, seasoned authors, and anyone reclaiming their sexy voice on the page. You'll get:

— Writing prompts and technique tips

— Encouragement to get messy and explicit

— Practical info about publishing and sharing your work

— A growing community of fellow smut-loving writers

And, in addition to workshops, you could join us for:

- Regular writing sprints

- Spicy publishing resources

- Marketing support for your published work

🖤 D/s Relationship Track

These workshops are for anyone curious about or already practicing D/s—whether long distance, 24/7, casual, or committed. You'll walk away with:

— Frameworks and tools to support intentional power exchange

— Strategies for building trust, connection, and roles

— Supportive, shame-free space to ask questions and explore

Coming soon:

— A monthly dominant discussion group (stay tuned!)

To attend:

You must be subscribed at the webinar level or higher on Patreon.

Can’t join Patreon? Email me or DM me - sinclair@sugarbutch.net - to talk about alternatives.

I’m so excited to gather with y’all more often, and dive deeper into both erotica writing and D/s topics.

PS: Did you notice that I announced dates for the 2025 Writing Spicy group already? Save the date! The next Writing Spicy: 6 Week Online Erotica Writing Workshop will happen October 5 – November 16, 2025. More information or get on the list to be notified when registration opens at www.writingspicy.com