ENM Speed Dating/Friending Oakland & East Bay

  • Hosted by Plura Bay Area
  • Oakland, CA - address sent to ticket holders
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Looking for more ethically non-monogamous and polyamorous friends, dates & other connections? Or just want to do more fun things in SF? Bloom Community is running ENM speed friending/speed dating. Join the Bay Area polyamory community at this facilitated event.

All genders, sexualities, gender expressions, ENM styles, etc. are encouraged to attend our version of San Francisco speed dating.

What is ENM?

Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) is the practice of having multiple sexual or romantic partners with the consent of all parties involved. Relationship dynamics are different for everybody, & we want to create a space to learn more & get to know other people who are exploring it too.


6:45pm - Doors Open

7:00-7:15 - Intros and Instructions

7:15-8:30 - Facilitated Speed Friending/Dating

8:30 and on - Open Mingling

Location: The White Horse Bar

 Established in 1933, the White Horse is the oldest continuously operating gay bar in the nation and a location of significant events during the ongoing struggle for equality. While people of all orientations are welcome here we ask that everyone respect that this venue centers the LGBTQ+ community, its long history, and its rich culture. Thank you!

About Your Hosts

For Emma and Fin, life is all about seeking out adventure, embracing the chaos, and meeting amazing people along the way. They host the podcast, "Normalizing Non-Monogamy" and are building an incredible community of people exploring non-monogamy from all over the world. Overall their mission is to inspire people to embrace their true selves so that, together, we can open minds and live authentically without shame.

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