Ethical Sadism

Greetings Lovers!

Sadism ignites us all. But sometimes, it can be hard to know where to draw the line between fantasy and reality.

How do we keep the correct balance in our d/s dynamics?

How do we lean into full brutality, terrifying our subs to their core and pushing them to go deeper than they ever have, while also maintaining an overall feeling of safety that is measured, controlled and will keep them out of true harm’s way?

How do we learn to fully trust ourselves so we can unleash our inner demons to their fullest potential, knowing that they’ll do the harm exactly as we want it?

All people with a sadistic streak know that it’s a part of them, but this can be confusing when we don’t want to inflict real true harm to others. So where do we lie on the scale?

In this class, we navigate all of this and more. We will have conversations about the human psyche and will explore how ethics paired with sadism can help nurture the most fucked up scenes imaginable that leave you and your sub floating on cloud nine. All of the good disrepair, with none of the psychic damage.

Taught by Dominatrix Rin

Owner of the Red Cathedral and full time professional Dominatrix with over 7 years of experience.

Sliding scale $25-$35

Class outline:

Introductions

Examples of unethical vs ethical interactions

Breakdown of psychology basics, how to nurture positive pathways with sadism

Class discussion around ethics

Further examples, with more of a focus on ethics and utilizing what was discussed and taught

Breakout sessions to practice (these are only done with conversations around consent, and all intentions are optional and not required. There is always an option to hang out and not do this if you are not comfortable)

Conclusions

Wind down time to socialize if you wish

Do you need to bring a partner to this class? Absolutely not! Solo practitioners are absolutely welcome. There is always a mix of people who come by themselves and couples. These classes always end up feeling extremely unified and are socially uplifting

Come wearing comfortable clothing or dress up if you wish! Bring things to record information if you like. There will be no handouts or pdfs for this class. At this time all classes are in person and not virtual. Water will be provided.

COVID testing is required. Please come with a negative Covid test. We have some for sale at the door.

This is a strictly shoes off space. So keep that in mind for your outfit planning.

Accessibility

There are two sets of stairs.

Wheel chairs can be carried down and attendees assisted if need be. I sense is burned unless any attendees are scent sensitive. Please let us know in advance so we can be mindful of this. Some seating will be available for those with disabilities. Just let us know what your needs are.

This space is vetted. Meaning we will be making sure you are not a homophobe or a chaser (as mentioned above!). What is a chaser? Someone who heavily fetishizes queer and trans people without any care about who they are as human beings.

No homophobia

No transphobia

No racism

No sexism

No body shaming/fat phobia

Free Palestine

No antisemitism

Respect consent

The Red Cathedral is an proudly antifascist space

Please reach out to redcathedral@protonmail.com for vetting and more information

We have a select number of sliding scale/free bipoc tickets. Please reach out for more info about this. Once tickets are gone they’re gone

There are no refunds. A lot goes into the event, so no refunds will be given.