Expanding Male Sexuality: Beyond the Money Shot

  • San Francisco, CA -
  • 15 people on the list-

This seminar aims to shift this focus towards energetic sexual perspectives that can lead to transformative states of bliss for both partner

A common stereotype is that female sexuality is often labeled as "mysterious" or "complex.”However, male sexuality also has its layers of complexity. For example, many people may not be aware that men can experience multiple full-body energetic orgasms without the act of ejaculation. This facet of male sexual experience defies the more commonly held beliefs about male sexuality being straightforward or solely focused on ejaculation, opening up new dialogues about what men can also achieve in their sexual experiences.

The Pitfalls of Porn

Pornography is a significant source of sexual information worldwide, and is primarily designed for entertainment and not education. As such, it often provides a skewed or unrealistic view of sexual relationships, expectations, and behaviors. The term "money shot" is slang that originated in the context of pornography to refer to male ejaculation, symbolizing the culmination of male pleasure, and is often considered the most important or saleable moment.

The ‘harder, faster, stronger’ view of sexual activity in porn, can obscure the experiences that lead to genuine intimacy. As a result, many people have been conditioned to overly rely on friction-based techniques in lovemaking, often turning the experience into a goal-oriented exercise toward male ejaculation.

The Cycle of Ejaculatory Addiction

Many people operate under the misconception that men being ejaculation-centric is natural rather than a way to release stress often becoming addictive. This addiction significantly contributes to relationship issues. Addressing it is crucial for the evolution of personal relationships and, by extension, societal well-being.

The Drawbacks of Learning About Sex on Your Own

Even when men are not swayed by distorted online narratives, they might still develop misconceptions about female anatomy based on their own pleasuring techniques. This results in an emphasis on friction-based methods and fleeting orgasms, missing out on a fuller, richer sexual experience.

What you all learn about:

  • Your Personal Sexual Compass: Recognising that men have a sexual cycle and learning how to use it effectively.
  • The Complexity of Orgasm: Exploring the differences and similarities between women and men’s orgasms.
  • Beyond the Basics: How men can diversify their orgasmic experience and lovemaking techniques.
  • Unlocking New Heights: Achieving full-body multiple orgasms without ejaculating.
  • Orgasm vs. Ejaculation: Understanding the distinct difference between ejaculation and orgasm.
  • Emotional Healing and Sexual Function: Addressing early ejaculation and erection problems through mindset, breathing, and emotional healing.
  • Breaking Free from Addiction: Overcoming men’s addiction to ejaculation.
  • Addressing Women's Frustrations: Understanding common pain points for women during sexual interactions and strategies to overcome them.
  • Towards Deeper Connection: Achieving heightened intimacy and emotional closeness.
  • Mutual Energetic Orgasms: How women can experience extended full-body energetic orgasms with a man.
  • Consciousness and Bliss: Riding the wave of female pleasure as a conduit for men to attain higher states of consciousness and bliss.

The Tantric Edge

Through understanding and applying straightforward Tantric techniques, men and women can open up endless avenues for sexual exploration and spiritual expansion. Not only can men overcome their ejaculation addiction and improve their relationships, but they can also learn to use their sexual energy as a catalyst for enhanced living, emotional health, and expanded states of consciousness.

Upon completing this seminar, you'll walk away with more than just a comprehensive understanding of male sexuality; you'll also feel empowered to reclaim your sexual knowledge and self-authority. This experience extends beyond just discussing sexuality—it's about reclaiming your sexual identity and autonomy.

  • This seminar is purely informative; you won't be asked to participate practically. You're welcome to apply what you've learned later, in the comfort and privacy of your own space.
  • This seminar welcomes individuals of all sexes and genders, creating an inclusive space for everyone to gain insights and understanding. The focus is on fostering a diverse environment where all attendees can feel comfortable and engaged in the conversation about male sexuality.

This event is part of a workshop series around female sexuality, male sexuality, and relationships. Everyone is welcome!! You can find the link to the other workshops below:

Expanding Female Sexuality: Simplifying the Complexity

Navigating Love and Intimacy: A Guide Through the Relationship Map

Andrew Barnes

Andrew Barnes' worldview encourages exploration beyond the usual ways of enhancing life experience. Drawing on a rich tapestry of experiences, insights, and even the lessons learned from mistakes and missteps, he brings a clear and distinctive presence, transparency, and approach. In addition to conceptual themes like sexual energy meditation, orgasmic expansion, vibrational awareness, and pineal gland activation, he addresses daily issues such as consent, relationships, love, pleasure, sexual dysfunctions, communication, limiting behavioral patterns, and health. With sensitivity and warmth, and at times irreverence and humor, he shares his insights.

Andrew holds a Master of Health Science (Sexual Health) and five diplomas in various disciplines of bodywork and energy healing. Since 1998, he has been facilitating sexuality and bodywork seminars, courses, retreats, and coaching sessions, and to date, he has facilitated events in 49 countries.

His creations include:

  • Tantric Body De-armouring
  • Orgastic Breath Dance Meditation
  • Tantric Full Body Energy Orgasm Retreats
  • The Relationship Map
  • Pineal Gland Activation Meditation
  • Heart-centered Sexuality Meditation
  • Sananga Awakening Meditation
  • The Reconciliation Ritual Between Women & Men

Additionally, he is the author of the books:

  • "The Relationship Map Guidebook: Greathearted Love"
  • "Demystifying Female Genitalia: The Confluence of Scientific Insight & Historical Chronicle: A Comprehensive Anatomy Guide"
  • "Heart of the Flower: The Book of Yonis”

Andrew's passion is founded in his desire to facilitate transformative growth in others, guiding them toward a heightened awareness of unconscious beliefs and behaviors that often limit their potential. By assisting them to recognize and navigate these hidden barriers, he empowers them to encompass their vibrational resonance and energetic attunement, and to love more with less fear, allowing for a fuller, more enriched life experience. This journey involves not only self-awareness but a profound understanding of the interconnectedness of mind, body, sexuality, energy, and spirit.

Andrew's approach extends beyond conventional wisdom, uncovering the untapped transformative power of sexual energy. He shows how this primal force, often misunderstood or overlooked, can be harnessed as a spiritual catalyst. He facilitates methods and techniques to channel this energy, transforming it into a rejuvenating force that transcends physical pleasure, reaching into realms of emotional harmonization, consciousness expansion, and even material abundance. His approach weaves together ancient wisdom with modern insights, making them accessible and relevant to contemporary life. The result is a holistic framework that opens new pathways for personal and spiritual growth, and sexual and orgasmic revolution, where sexual energy becomes a key to unlocking potential and aligning with one's true purpose.

With a focused commitment to autonomy and agency, Andrew assists others in reclaiming their personal power, fostering communication, and defining clear, healthy boundaries, even in the face of authority. Having gone through many personal and professional transformations, including undergoing an enlightening accountability process, and having professional supervision with Betty Martin since 2021, Andrew builds his retreats on the foundational pillars of trauma-informed care, trauma-informed touch, and trauma-informed consent. These principles support in creating nurturing and flexible environments that adapt to individual needs, fostering growth and enriching experiences.

Andrew has been a member of the Golden Key International Honour Society since 2009, a recognition available only to the top 15% of undergraduate and postgraduate university students worldwide. More information can be found at

Andrew completed an accountability process at the beginning of 2023. For more details please go to

Ticket Options:

  • Single Workshop: $100
  • 2-Workshop Package: $170 (value $85/class)
  • Full Workshop Package (3): $225 (value $75/class)

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