Family Matters - A Domestic Discipline Role-Play Party

Whether you’re a Mommy, Daddy, Aunt, Uncle, sibling, or little one, this is your space to explore family-style DD dynamics in a safe, consensual, and playful way.

All genders, orientations, and roles are welcome and encouraged to attend!

What to Expect

1. A relaxed, social atmosphere to connect, chat, and ease into play.
2. Negotiated opportunities for various play
3. Maintenance spankings — moderate, routine discipline that’s short, focused, and corrective.
4. Punishment spankings — firm, to-the-point corrections with a quick warm-up to a spanking to reset the mischief clock.
5. Come for the connection. Stay for the structure. Leave balanced and ready for the weekend.

Event Flow

7:00 PM Doors Open - Meet, mingle, and socialize

7:45 PM Opening Circle - Introductions and rules for safe play

8-11 PM Domestic Consequences

Provided: Alcohol wipes & paper towels for general cleaning and sanitation.

Dress Code

1. The dress code is defined by your role: Mom, Aunt, Sister, Dad, Uncle, Brother etc.
2. Please wear clothing that reflects your role defined by your chosen age, dynamic, or negotiated play scene.
3. Options for Tops/Dominants could include: casual or dressy work or church attire, Leather, jeans etc.
4. Options for bottoms/submissives could look like: School uniforms, sporting outfits/jerseys, PJs, onesies, diapers acceptable (wet only, please).

Etiquette & Rules

1. Consent first: always ask before touching or playing.
2. Respect roles & limits: no shaming, no judgment.
3. No kink shaming — every dynamic, style, and preference is valid.
4. Roles and role-play are fantasy, not real hierarchy. Character over credentials.
5. Safe words required: 🟡 Yellow = check in, 🔴 Red = stop immediately
6. Shared responsibility: Tops & bottoms are equally responsible for safety.
7. Discipline with care: know your energy, intention, & honor aftercare every time.
8. Hygiene matters: arrive clean, fresh, and ready.
9. Atmosphere = light, supportive, and fun — this is a family affair!

BYO

● Booze (moderation please)

● A snack to share (optional)

● Implements, lube, wipes, personal gear

Facilitator

This container will be guided by Dan, a seasoned member of the Kink Collective known for creating relaxed, welcoming spaces for erotic play. Dan emphasizes safety, consent, and connection — reminding participants that this is as much about presence and community as it is about the intensity of the act itself. His facilitation ensures that whether you’re a newcomer or deeply experienced, you’ll feel held, supported, and free to explore at your own pace.

About BARE Connections

BARE Connections is built to bring people together through fun, connection, and consent. We create inclusive spaces for consensual spanking—from men’s-only and role-play events to gender-led and mixed dynamics—welcoming all experience levels and all ages 18+ to explore in a safe, respectful, and trusting environment.

The BARE in Bare Connections stands for:

B - Bonds: earned trust and authentic connection

A - Attention: intentional focus, and care

R - Rites: Knowledge, experience, skills, implements, and safety

E - Energy: The shared exchange and emotions that shape how your partner genuinely experiences the scene

Final Details

1. Where: The Sanctuary of East Harlem, 113 E 125th St. 10035 - Unfortunately, The Sanctuary of East Harlem is not wheelchair accessible. Guests must be able to walk up a flight of stairs (20 steps total).
2. When: Wednesday, October 15th
3. Time: 7PM - 11PM

Tickets:

$30 regular

$20 members

We greatly look forward to meeting and interacting with you!