FemDom for Nice Girls: Intro to Femme Dominance

(Can't get to Awakening Boutique? No problem! Join us on Zoom)

You don’t have to be mean to be a Queen!

Do you ever wonder if dominance could feel good in your body—without performing a stereotype that doesn’t fit? In FemDom for Nice Girls, we’ll explore what it means to own your erotic authority from a place of authenticity and care.

Together, we’ll unpack common myths about Dominance and the Dominatrix, explore empowering Domme archetypes, and dive into fantasy creation through a feminine lens. We'll also unpack the FemDom’s bag of tricks-including differences between S/M and D/s, and how to make the best of these tools.

This workshop includes guided discussion and simple hands-on exercises to help you find your signature dominant style—whether that’s nurturing, commanding, seductive, or something totally unique. You’ll leave with greater confidence, embodied tools, and a clearer sense of how to play with power in a way that feels natural, sexy, and fun.

I just can’t be mean… is this class for me?

Absolutely! This workshop is all about helping you find your authentic version of dominance. You’ll learn that there are many ways to be in charge—including playful, sensual, nurturing, or even bratty!

Is this class for women only?

Nope! This is about Femme Dominance - domination through a feminine lens and expression. All genders and orientations are welcome. (In fact, your instructor is high-femme presenting nonbinary, i.e. a Them Fatale)

Will there be hands-on practice?

Yes, we’ll have guided, opt-in activities that help you experiment with posture, voice, presence, and commands. You’ll never be put on the spot, and everything is consent-based.

Is this for couples or solo folks?

Both! You can attend solo, with a partner, or with a friend. You’ll have chances to reflect and practice in ways that feel comfortable for your situation.

What should I bring or wear?

No specific gear is required beyond a pen and notebook for writing prompts.

This class is 18+, and takes place at Awakening Boutique on Broadway. Please arrive around 5:45pm as the workshop begins prompty at 6pm.

Kat Rainsong (she/they) is a Certified Holistic Sex Educator™ and Erotic Life Coach with over a decade of experience in Lifestyle and Professional Domination. They’ve worked with individuals and couples around the country to overcome shame, build confidence, and create authentic erotic lives. Known for their warmth, inclusivity, and clear teaching style, Mx Kitty specializes in helping “nice girls,” sensitive folks, and recovering people-pleasers discover how powerful they really are—without ever pretending to be someone they’re not.