Burn for Me - Fireplay 101

Hosted by Drago (Phoenix Events NYC)

Kink Tour Series

Are you a fire starter—literally? This one's for you!

Fire pІay is one of the most exhilarating forms of sensation pІay, offering a unique blend of intimacy, adrenaline, and primal beauty. But with great flame comes great responsibility.

The subtle art of lighting someone on fire is as old as the kinky pyromaniacs who learned to make fire thousands of years ago. Over time, the safety factor has come a long way. This workshop is about how to play with fire in ways that are thrilling, connecting, and most importantly, risk-aware!

Fire pІay is one of the most exhilarating forms of sensation pІay, offering a unique blend of intimacy, adrenaline, and primal beauty. But with great flame comes great responsibility. This workshop will equip you with the skills to begin navigating basic fireplay consciously.

About the K!nk Tour Series: Embark on this educational K!NK TOUR, your passport to exploring a world of desires, sensations, and play styles. This series is your guided journey through the basics of k!nk—think of it as a sightseeing trip through pleasure, where every workshop is a new destination. Whether you're just getting your first taste or you're an experienced traveler in the world of k!nk, you'll find something here to expand your horizons.

This tour is about sampling what’s out there, enough to give you a feel for different styles in a controlled, safe(r) environment. New to a particular k!nk? Get a guided introduction and try it on. Already familiar? Heighten your experience with deeper safety practices and improve your techniques. Wherever you are on your journey, this tour is designed to inspire, educate, and elevate your play. Enjoy the ride!

💡 What We’ll Explore:

🔥 Foundations of Fire PІay – Learn the core principles of fire pІay, from the energetic psychology to the tactile sensations. Understand how to tune into your partner while commanding the flame.

🧯 Safety Protocols & Tools – We’ll go over fire safety in exhaustive detail: must-have gear, spotter protocols, emergency response plans, and safety considerations for both tops and bottoms.

🧪 Techniques & Toys – Explore a variety of fire pІay methods and tools, including flash cotton, mousse, fire impact, rum runner, fire massage, fire bubbles, and fire wands. Learn how to control flame intensity, duration, and placement.

🌀 Reading the Body – Every body burns differently. You’ll learn how to adapt fire pІay techniques to suit your partner’s unique responses, thresholds, and desires.

🫶 Connection Through Flame – Fire is more than danger—it’s intimacy. Discover how to build trust, stay attuned, and create fiery scenes that are emotionally grounded and deeply satisfying.

Workshop Format:

Discussion & Practical Exercises: This workshop blends group discussions with hands-on exercises. You’ll interact with others, practice communication techniques, and gain feedback to build confidence.

Solo & Group Work:

1. Attend solo or bring a partner. Couples can stay paired or explore practicing with others.
2. You’ll have opportunities to practice with both familiar partners and new acquaintances to simulate established dynamics and/or pickup scene scenarios.
3. Expect communication-based exercises in partners and/or small groups. You can also opt out at any time and observe others.
4. More physical engagement will be reserved for the Jam.

Dress Code: Feel free to dress however you want—whether vanilla or pІay-ready. There is a space to change if needed.

Jam After the Workshop:

Stick around for our jam session. This is your chance to put what you’ve learned into action, trying out your new skills on dungeon furniture in a supportive setting. The lights go down, the music goes up, and playtime begins! Drago will be available for feedback, scenes, or additional guidance to solidify the workshop’s learning in a hands-on, playful environment. Participate at your own comfort level - whether that means observing, chatting, or playing with others.

We’ll have a pІayroom for active engagement, a Low-Stim Room for decompression, and a Kitchen Snack space for casual chats.

Please Acknowledge:

It should go without saying, but we are going to spell it out clearly nonetheless: k¡nk and intimacy activities are inherently risky. Safety requires practice and cannot be guaranteed. By attending, you agree to participate at your own risk, conduct your own risk management, and agree to hold the event facilitators and facility harmless for any type of physical or emotional harm that may occur.

Questions or concerns?

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