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Fundamentals of Feminine Dominance: Archetypes of Desire w/ Midori

Have you found yourself pausing when someone asks “what are you really into?” or “What type of D/s do you enjoy?”

Having a hard time visualizing what you might enjoy in that scene your partner wants? Perhaps you’ve found yourself not quite loving the play you’ve enjoyed in the past but aren’t sure what to ask for in negotiations?

Contrary to popular assumptions- knowing what we really want in play can be challenging. It’s also quite normal to not know everything about your desires. Auntie Midori is here to help.

This is an exciting new virtual class from the founder of ForteFemme Women’s Dominance Intensive & The Art of Feminine Dominance. Part of a series exploring the fundamentals of feminine dominance* Midori will guide you through a unique process to help you identify your desire archetype and learn how to embody and express it through play.

Important note: “Feminine dominance” is about a state of mind and how it can be explored through play, not necessarily gender experience. This class is open to all genders, orientations, and anyone with curiosity about topping (whether a little or a lot).

We will cover…

  • How to identify your core desires that underly your current play
  • Begin to identify what your partner is really asking for in a scene
  • Identify the types of scenes that you won’t enjoy before you get into them
  • Learn Midori’s infamous Desires Chart and how to use it to break out of the box for better scene satisfaction
  • Special guest, Laura Antoniou analyzes the play potential in Midori’s Fem Dom Desires Chart
  • Consider scenes that you might not have thought of that just might delight you
  • Get practical tips for playing with your newfound clarity and desires.

🎥 This workshop will be recorded and available for a week after the live class. The recording will be sent to anyone who signs up for the workshop.

No experience necessary.

* All Genders & Orientations welcome

* Come prepared to engage in thought exercises & discussions, deep dive into your needs, and take lots of notes (so many fun ideas!)

* If you have taken the classes “Best Kink Advice Nobody Told You” or “Art of Feminine Dominance”, this class is an excellent complement and addition to the skills learned there. For foundations on physical skills and specific tools and techniques, stay tuned for class dates.

ABOUT THE EDUCATOR

Midori ( 美登里 )(she / her) Trailblazing educator, artist, and irritant to banality, Midori teaches, coaches, and consults on alternative sexuality, BDSM, Shibari cultural competency, and joyful empowerment through D/s and thoughtful kink. She began teaching in the mid 90’s in San Francisco and shortly after established her company Fire Horse Productions. Midori is known for having penned the first English instruction book on Shibari, “Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage” in 2001, paving the way for the popularity of rope today.

Midori founded Rope Dojo in 2002 and ForteFemme: Women’s Dominance Intensive in 2004. In 2020 she launched the monthly deep dive discussion youtube program Consent Dojo. Currently, she is working on a follow-up book about Shibari and strategies for engaged play. Midori is the Co-Director of Curriculum for Kink Informed Certification, part of the Sexual Health Alliance, training therapists and helping professionals to provide safe, compassionate, and inclusive service to their clients.

​She also authored “Wild Side Sex,” “Silk Threads” among others and contributed a chapter to "An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy: Centering the Lives of Indigenous, Racialized, and People of Color”

She is the recipient of the 2022 Humanitarian Award from the American Association of Sex Educators Therapists & Counselors (AASECT) and the 2022 Effing Foundation Grant, along with having been honored with a Sainthood by The Sisters of Perpetual indulgence.

Her site: www.PlanetMidori.com

Classes, art and live events: www.patreon.com/planetmidori

Social Media: @PlanetMidori