fwb co-play: 🍆 bisensual hosted by Hannah & Justin

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​​The gender-expansive play party centering bi and bicurious men you've been waiting for.

​Too often, play parties default into dynamics between bisexual women and straight-passing men, leaving little room for queer masculine energy to emerge. Bisensual shifts the center of gravity. It’s a gathering designed to celebrate attraction, curiosity, and connection between masculine-identifying individuals, without assumptions, scripts, or narrow boxes about what “masculinity” is supposed to look or feel like.

​Who It’s For

This event invites people of all genders to co-create a space where masculinity can be expressed, witnessed, and reimagined on its own terms:

1. ​Bi and bicurious men ready to play, explore, or simply feel more at home in their desires
2. ​Trans men, nonbinary folks, gender-fluid babes, masc-leaning cuties
3. ​Femmes of all genders who want to participate, instigate, guide, and hold space
4. ​Anyone who knows that masculinity does not belong to one body, one story, or one presentation

​Sober(ish) by Design

​We keep things sober-ish—a cocktail, a glass of wine, or a little bud is fine. But we want you present, connected, and grounded. Substances can blur boundaries and mute the very desires we’re here to explore. Clear consent and authentic connection matter deeply at Bisensual.

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​EVENT SCHEDULE

​​8:00 Arrival and check-in

9:00 Doors lock + consent speech, and then play can begin

1:15 Lights on

1:30 Everyone out

​​FWB MEMBERSHIPS

​​Anyone can purchase a fwb membership through our Luma event page to receive discounts on tickets and Clubhouse rentals.

​ARRIVAL

​​​​​​​Doors lock at 9:00P for the comfort and safety of our community. Please arrive early to ensure you will be admitted. Late and unapproved guests will be turned away at the door.

​​​​​​No shoes allowed in the loft. We recommend bringing a pair of grip socks or slippers. If you require an accessibility exemption, please email friends@fwb.events.

​We provide a coat check and space for you to store your belongings. Feel free to bring a coat, a change of clothes, and/or a toy bag.

​​​​If it's your first event, please arrive early. We’ll give you a tour of the space, review the ground rules, answer any questions, and introduce you to other friends.

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​​ACCESSIBILITY

​​The building is ADA accessible.

​​​​There is an elevator. Note for people with wheelchairs, canes, other walking assistance devices: the tile of the lobby floor is uneven so be careful navigating, and the bathroom is not ADA compliant.

​​​​​​​This is a low-scent event: no perfume, cologne, or essential oils.

​​​​​​​If you have a latex allergy, please let us know ahead of time so we can ensure to remove any latex products in the play space and ask our participants to leave their latex products at home.

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​PHONE POLICY

​​​​​​​​​​​​We have a strict no phone policy for the privacy and presence of all our guests. Please ensure your phone is off or set to do not disturb. When you arrive, you must check in your phone(s) with one of our hosts. We discourage checking phones during social time, but if you must check your phone before doors lock, you may check it at the front desk and promptly return it to our staff.

​​​​​​​Once doors have locked, there are no phones allowed. If you need to check your phone, you will be asked to leave the event.

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​​​​​​​FOOD & BEVY

​​​​​​​We provide tea, non-alcoholic drinks and a variety of snacks. (As a queer-owned and run space, you know we take our snacks VERY seriously).

​​​​If you arrive visibly intoxicated, or become overly intoxicated throughout the event, you may be asked to leave for the safety of yourself and our community.

​​​​There's no food or bevy in the play area except water.

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​COMMUNITY HEALTH & SAFETY

​Covid, cold, and flu:​​​​​​

​We require all attendees to test for COVID before you arrive. No need to send results - we trust you. If you are feeling sick, were recently exposed to someone who is sick, or test positive, we ask that you stay home to help us keep our community safe and healthy. We will credit you for a future event.

​We provide face masks and hand sanitizer at the clubhouse. We run air purifiers during and between events.

​While we take all the precautions we can to be covid safe, this is ultimately an intimate event with risk of infection. If you are at higher risk of infection or adverse effects for covid or other illnesses, we encourage you to err on the side of caution.

​STIs:

​​​​​​We advocate for safer sex practices at fwb. We aim to foster a culture where people openly discuss sexual health and practice informed consent. Do not refer to negative STI results as “clean.” Don’t make jokes about STIs or people with them. Decide your risk tolerance when engaging in play and communicate your STI status and safer sex preferences with any potential partners. If someone discloses a positive STI result, do not shame or disparage them.

​​​​We offer barriers of all kinds (dental dams, condoms, finger condoms, gloves) if your preference is to avoid any fluid exchange.

​​​​​​​We provide black wristbands to people who have shared negative STI results for HIV 1 & 2, , chlamydia, and gonorrhea from the past 30 days. You can email, text, telegram, or share your results in person with staff at the event to receive your wristband.

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​REFUND & CANCELLATION POLICY

​We do not offer refunds. If you need to cancel or change your reservation, please let us know 48 hours prior to an event, and we will credit you for a future event.

​If you are sick, were recently exposed to someone who has covid, or tested positive, and let us know ~2 hours prior to an event start, we will credit you for a future event.

​We offer refunds if we cancel an event for any reason. We'll send out a cancellation email. Attendees who wish to receive a refund for their ticket purchase will need to respond within 7 days of the cancelled event. All other tickets will receive a credit for a future event.

​Because we keep our events intentionally small and curate our guest list for a healthy balance of genders, sexualities, and interests, repeat no calls/no shows by friends with an active fwb membership may have their membership revoked.

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​ABOUT FWB

​fwb is a members-only, queer-femme founded social club for open-minded people to learn, explore, and play. We host a range of sex positive programming, including socials, workshops, and play parties.

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​CONTACT US

​Email friends@fwb.events if you’d like more information on private rentals, collaboration, sponsorship, or have any questions.