Queer Men Speed Dating/Friending and After Play Party!

  • Hosted by Plura NYC
  • New York, NY - address sent to ticket holders
  • 15 people on the list

Gay Speed Dating and After Play Party! 7-11:30 pm in NYC

7pm-9pm Gay Speed Dating, 9:30-11:30pm After Play Party!

*This event is for male/he/him identified only*

Daddy Retreat Production, Facilitated by Dominus Eros

Pride Collaboration with the Bloom Community App

2-Part Pride Event!

Join us in the fun and unique twist to speed dating! Get a match and stay for the after-play party!

Just in time for Pride month Dominus & Bloom Community App has put together a one-of-a-kind speed dating that you won't want to miss! We take speed dating, bend it over and spank it thoroughly for you to enjoy! Gay Speed Dating creates a space where those that share interests and hobbies in Erotic energy, Sacred intimacy, Kink, BDSM, and anything alternative to meet in a relaxed and fun setting!

We do not pair people up according to the usual formats, instead, we have unique movements based on interests within energy play, kink, power dynamics, and curiosities. We also have mini-group breakouts and open time for everyone to get to know each other a bit more!

The focus of the night is not just purely on romantic connections, we expand to have opportunities to meet potential playmates, kink friends, and all sorts of connections. Great night to also meet someone you can take to a party that Daddy Retreat hosts, especially the After Play Party!

After Play Party will offer a chance to take the energy of hot matchmaking and offer space for us to come together in intimate play with each other. Touch-based offerings as well as other forms of spiritual $exual energy and kinky play will be offered to celebrate our connections to each other!

You can attend Both or just one of either speed dating or play party!

What You Get: This is an in-person gathering in a beautiful private studio space in Manhattan. We offer 2 hours of meeting others with fun icebreaker activities that will enhance your $exy self and hopefully meet a new playmate or two!

A 2 hour play party will follow at 9:30 pm!

Intended Outcomes & Benefits: We are always looking for more ways to connect with other humans and bond over similar interests and hobbies, and what better way to be that ethical heathen than to make a new friend and/or play interest at Gay Speed Dating?

  • Introduction meet and greet circle
  • Safety protocol and negotiations
  • Talks on Sacred Spirituality, Erotic Energy, BDSM, Kink and how to engage
  • Mini group breakouts
  • Gay Speed Dating with a $exy twist
  • Free open time
  • Closing circle and gratitude goodbyes to speed dating portion
  • Introduction meet and greet circle to welcome new guys for After Party
  • After Play Party with fun and $exy activities!


  • Speed Dating ONLY: $30 Early Bird, $40 Regular, and at Door (these can be purchased directly from Bloom ticketing).


If you would like to attend the Play Party after the speed dating event, use THIS LINK:

  • Speed Dating AND After Play Party: $50 Early Bird, $60 Regular and at Door
  • After Play Party Only: $30 Early Bird, $40 Regular and at Door

The address is given in email confirmation additional info area

NOTE: We encourage everyone to have an open mind as this is a fun, open, and explorative learning environment. We practice and review informed & ongoing consent practices with an emphasis on mutual desire.

This event is perfect and open for all experience levels. To comply with Covid-19 safety precautions, proof of vaccination or Negative Covid test within 48 hours, rapid, pcr & over the counter (Take a pic) is required to enter the space. Please bring your vaccination card/Excelsior pass or Negative Covid Test Result. 18+ for workshops, 21+ for party. Refunds must be requested 24hrs prior to the event. Doors open at 6:45 pm and closes at 7:10 pm for Speed Dating, 9:30pm open and closes at 10pm for Party; please be on time.

What to bring?

  • Your favorite tools & toys/props/gear
  • Proof of vaccination or Negative Covid test within 48hours, rapid, pcr & over the counter (Take a pic)
  • Open, curious minds  
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